The Things That Do Not Change

On Wednesday evening, I spoke at El Camino College in Torrance, California to students in a Philosophy/American Literature class about relationships and the messages within my book, You Find Your Soul Mate When You Let Go of Searching. The students were not as verbally responsive as I had intended them to be, however they were receiving the messages because they reacted in other ways, smiling, nodding their heads, laughing. There was one student that came up to me after the class was over and asked some great questions. I want to share them with you here, for they are a beautiful way to emphasize the importance of what is necessary for a healthy relationship to last and remain at a soul mate level. Please keep in mind that this gentleman who asked me these two questions is 19 years old…truly age does not matter in areas of the soul and relationships! I had discussed in class how we are always changing and growing and we also do this within a relationship. When a relationship ends, it is important to take time to figure out who you are at that time before entering into another relationship. How do you figure out who you are? One way is to start thinking about things that you feel about, what do you see for your future, what do you like to do, where do your passions lay, and what exactly are you passionate about? How has this relationship changed you? Who were you before and who are you now? When you determine these answers, you can then go forward to participate in the activities that you enjoy doing which will probably cause you to feel more comfortable in your own skin and during these activities, you may meet other people, make new friends, etc. who are doing the same thing. His first question: “You mentioned that we are always changing, but I was wondering about the parts of us that don’t change. There are things that I notice in my girlfriend (his first girlfriend) that I also see in me that does not change. How does that relate to a relationship?” This is perfect! Wow ~ this is what I am trying to get many adults to understand! I responded to him ~ what a great question! Those parts of you that do not change and that make you who you are as well as what make your girlfriend who she is are the things that will help you to get through anything within life and all the other changes that you go through. When finding someone to be with in a relationship,...

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For my Twin Flame: Right Here, Right Now

I’ve lost myself in these pages, soul mates swimming in waves of connection and physical intimacy Or a map of the steps and path of souls merging together for a humanitarian mission in the world raising the collective consciousness back to love Yet you may argue that perhaps I have found myself, as I have within you A part of me hesitates with reading these sentences that keep me in the place of wanting you and being with you in the “future” Because isn’t our truth that we are together now? I am reading these books with such urgency, that I find, I need to finish so that I can be with you, and yet if it merely takes me to stop reading, then I don’t want to read anymore I hear your voice as your soul whispers to me consistently that you are with me every day, all the time And you always call me to you, to connect with you, to be with you right now I wonder my love, is my talk taking me away from you? Is my reading keeping me away from you? Is my mind and my thoughts in a time that it is not right now when all that is is right now? I could lose myself and find myself in the haven of your arms As you are the facilitator of our love which exists and persists throughout time and distance or any barrier that attempts to block it With merely a touch, you bring me back to us as the human limitations leave my understanding You are a healer as your essence strengthens my spirit and I am reborn into who I have always been yet this lucid illusion held me captive for so long Is the recognition of our connection in everything that comes to me drawing me closer to you or pulling me away? Is my awakeness assisting me on the path towards the deeper intimacy that we are made for or does it keep me focused on the next step and the next step instead of breathing in the beauty right here, right now, in this moment? Ultimately, my love it is this moment that will bring me to the moment that I stand before you in awe of the synchronicity of the perfection in which you are standing before me I give thanks and fall down on my knees in the utmost gratitude for the intensity and light of our union as the love I hold for you deep within the core of my spiritual being overcomes my senses I am lost and I am found...

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The Light is Exposing the Darkness, That’s All

You may have noticed that there is a theme going on in many writings (blogs, books, etc) as well as in other forms of media such as TV, and so much more: Love or Fear? It is time for us to let go of the fear because love does not exist if we are living in fear. There is a huge consciousness shift occurring right now in our world…the media is owned by huge corporations who try to control what news we know about (which tend to focus on the negative) to create fear so that we are easily controlled. Perhaps there is a little problem with our economic status as a country, and there needs to be steps to take to attempt to correct this, no doubt, however every little step can help to bring about any solution(s) we may need. I want to mention here that the worst thing you can do is to sit in front of the TV watching the news as this progresses as well as read the papers as opinions upon opinions, layered with fear upon fear that people are expressing. We are all comprised of energy. Everything has energy, and when you place your energy on a thought, and that thought again, you give that thought (s) a lot of energy. It is a continuous cycle that just feeds onto itself. We have an election coming up very soon (I hope that everyone is registered to vote and plans on voting) and I believe that it is important to watch the debates so that you can thoroughly examine the opponents to see where your heart guides you. However, there are many tactics that are used in politics to belittle the other person and all of those things that are expressed over and over again in the news are not necessary. How can we get rid of all this fear or at least diminish the intensity and effect that it has on us? One of the most powerful things you can do to counteract anything negative is to send the opposite energy towards it. Focus on the positive ~ how can you do that? Well, here is what I am going to challenge you to do: (we have free will in our world so you have a choice to do this or not but I can guarantee that you will notice some interesting changes within your world if you follow through with this) to not watch the news or read the news for one week. You can watch any debates that are on from now until 9am next Friday morning (October 10), but...

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I Will Find You ~ A Message to Soul Mates/Twin Flames

I am posting this video and song, “I Will Find You,” (Clannad) in the hopes that those of you that are in the process of “physically” uniting with your soul mates/twin flames will find comfort in the truth that you are currently with him/her in your heart and consciousness. May you find peace in the truth of your emotions and knowingness that your connection and unity ARE in the process of manifesting into full physical reality before you…you will “find” each other by being content in this truth…and letting each day unfold before you as it does…by noticing the signs that come to you and then letting your heart guide you to the steps to take…don’t fear, don’t doubt…let love embrace you. Cultivate the interaction spiritually, as you are awake both in the daytime and during the nighttime. Talk to him/her as if he/she is there with you right now, take the actions to hold the hand, caress the face, look into the eyes…be still and quiet in the silence of the intimacy you share, you will be pleasantly amazed by the response you will receive. You will be with each other in the physical, as you are now with each other in your hearts…keep feeding that union…it is here NOW. All my love profoundly,...

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