Q Can my relationship partner complete me? Is this person really the other half of me and what does that mean?
A Years ago, when the movie Jerry Maguire came out, there was a lot of hype over the line, “you complete me.” I think it is important to clarify what this means as we enter into the new way of being in a relationship. I want to also touch on the term “the other half” as well for your twin flame, one who you are choosing to be in a partnership with, is not your other half but rather an extension of you. Someone does not complete you, but rather shares in your completeness. What I mean is that you are complete on your own, as your partner is complete but you can choose to come together to share in your completeness. There is a completion so to speak when you reunite with your twin, but it is not a need based sense of feeling whole. It is rather another step towards fulfilling your intentions in this lifetime, as you extend your love you create together with the world.
Another aspect of this is the statement of being in love. Here is a question you may have heard: Have you ever been in love with someone? Well, I would change this question around to be: Have you ever been in love and shared that love with someone? When you are feeling whole and complete, you are being in love. This means that you are resonating with the love vibration which is so naturally who you are and you are bringing that love to your life experiences: in your attitude, in your relationships, in how you react to situations you encounter. To be in love with someone is dependent on that person to help you to feel love, and the relationship to offer you happiness. But it is the love within you that you connect with which creates your happiness. So therefore, you are not in love with someone, but rather you are being in love with someone. You are both resonating in love and sharing that love together.
11’s are very common as you come nearer to the physical reunion with your twin. You may find yourself seeing 1:11, or 11:11 on the clock, the minutes on a song you listen to, purchases you make, messages you receive. This is a powerful number of awakening. Look at the number 11 and let’s relate it to what I was discussing above: 11 is 1 and 1…1 and 1 stand on their own, but when they come together, they make 11, which is another creation they create by being together. However, 1 and 1 can also exist on their own. When you join together with someone in this new way of being in partnership, there are three parts of the relationship: you, the other person and both of you together. It is a beautiful tapestry of being and sharing, loving and creating.
This image shows how when 1 and 1 come together, they share in their love and then they create a circle of love which extends to others and the world. They are in the middle of the circle always receiving the love back and again extending it outwards…a circle is the symbol of the neverending outpouring of the love that is expressed and shared between twin flames.
As always, I am here to answer any further questions you may have.