Choice is Never Personal and Evolution is Always Mutually Occurring
Q I wanted to post this question to you, as I feel it’s a worry or concern I need to release and let go of. My fear… and I feel that our paths are heading this way… that in this lifetime, my twin will not have evolved in the way necessary in order for us to be together (as I have continued to do so)…. I have started feeling the presence of another wonderful soul moving in for me, and have been getting this same feedback from others
One– I think I need understanding that any choice my twin makes is not a personal one… and that if he chooses to be in relationship with others, it does not reflect our love or our connection. That perhaps it is just an easier path? And that if I choose to be in relationship with another, I can fully embrace that relationship and not feel as the absence of my twin.
And Two– What happens when one twin evolves at a greater rate than the other? How are they to come together?
A Absolutely, I always say to people that if your twin decides to be in other relationships, it is never personal against you. If you take the idea of soul contracts in here, knowing that you have made contracts with souls for your lifetime, then no one can take away the connection and specific contract you have with a soul. They can only fulfill their own. By no means, does a relationship with another take away from yours, because it simply is not your connection. Why would your twin choose to be in another relationship instead of being with you? There are many reasons but perhaps he is not ready to be in the relationship for twin flame partnerships are very strong. They offer profound opportunities for us to see ourselves in the other, our weaknesses and our strengths. We have to be ready and able to release the ego when it comes up without relating and interacting in the old way of being or there will be a tendency to run, to be in a relationship that is familiar, but not necessarily the highest opportunity for growth and evolution. This choice is not made, it is merely a choice and through every choice we still can learn, heal, grow and love.
Know that you and your twin are never separated even though it may seem that you are. When he is in another relationship and when you are, you are both still together going through the experiences of the relationships together. Therefore, the best thing you can do is allow yourself to love, allow yourself to have more and more opportunities to heal, to grow and to elevate yourself on the ladder of unconditional love. These only benefits both of you…and it is in doing this, that you become more and more in alignment with your twin. However, there is always a choice and a choice on both ends…can you come back together in this lifetime? Yes, if it is what you feel was part of your contract before physical incarnation and if you choose it too. Since you mentioned that you feel another man is coming through, pay attention to your feelings, as they are signs from your higher self, your internal guidance system to help you to remember what you intended to experience.