Q. I truly believe in my heart that I met my soul mate this summer. I was rather shocked and if I’m honest a bit scared of the intensity of the meeting and long story short we did not end up speaking to each other for the brief time we met. It’s a rather long story but I actually became aware of him before we met and now really just want to be with him all the time. I understand what you mean when you say that twin flames are never really apart but he lives in a different country, I can’t stop thinking about him and worry at times that the fear I felt (and maybe he felt too) the day we met may mean we will not meet again. What are your feelings about this?
A. Fear can absolutely come up when you meet your twin flame, because, as you mention, it is a very intense awakening of your soul. What is necessary and what almost inevitably follows the meeting of your twin soul is the awareness of the fears that are coming up, and a deepening of self love. The twin flame journey is one of deep unconditional love and as you move more fully into this space, more fears will come up. They aren’t coming up for you to resist this deeper love, but rather to move through them so that you can experience in all ways this beautiful, intense love of twin flames. Not only are you to walk through your fears and increase your capacity for self love (as this only enhances the love you have for your twin as your twin is the clearest mirror for you of who you are), but also to release the emotions, beliefs, behaviors of separation.
As you know and as you mentioned, you are not separated as you are a part of each other, so intricately intertwined. Since being physically “separated” from him, you have many opportunities of releasing the emotions and belief that you are separated to move into the knowing that you are so deeply connected. One of the benefits and purpose of physical separation with your twin is to be able to feel this separation on a human level so that you can move into the spiritual perspective of seeing that it is impossible for you to ever be separated. With this comes calmness and an acceptance of what is as you know that what you are experiencing right now is in the divine flow of preparation for your full reunion with your twin. Don’t doubt your connection or put the focus on the impossibility of your reunion, instead stay open to receiving his love in so many ways beyond your minds’ capacity to perceive and know that you are together and co-creating right in this moment. It may benefit you to listen to this free MP3 on surrender: The Power of Surrendering to the Present Moment