Q. I am a clairvoyant, I visualize things and put them in to their place in a verbal way to express it to someone else…I have known who I believe is my twin flame, Sean for almost 13 years…so from the time I was 13 till now which is 26. He lives down the street from me and we grew close between the ages of 22-and 25. We do not talk to each other anymore as he is the “runner” and I am the one sacrificing each time and in the higher dimension of consciousness than he is….I know he’s my twin flame, because of all the signs and mysterious dreams I have of him and then I’ll bump in to him if I am not speaking to him for a few months, it’s strange, I had a dream this morning, that I met him, and I was telling him in my dream….how I always dream of him…I’m telling him this in my dream.
I have two other eligible bachelors that are in love with me, and they have good heads on their shoulders, financially and education wise etc, whereas Sean is in the middle still struggling to find his identity, I don’t know …My only question is, if he is my twin flame, why am I dreaming of him so much when he’s not even in my life at all?
Will he ever come to realization ? and if so …how? Sometimes I think I am going crazy because he always runs as soon as we get “close” . I love him with all my heart and I am not sure why…
A. The twin flame connection/love is so deep and it goes way beyond any limitations or rules that the mind can place upon it…it feels as though there is a questioning/going back and forth between your mind and your heart. Your heart and soul loves your twin flame beyond your minds attempt to try to control your feelings and to understand them. Yet this love has always been between twin flames, from before life ever began on Earth, so the feelings that come about are the souls remembering and recognition of this other half of your soul.
In many of my other posts, I discuss the necessary component of being with your twin flame is being aware of the fears that naturally emerge when in contact with the clearest mirror of who you are, and then allowing yourself to walk through those fears, transforming them into a deeper space of unconditional love and connectedness, while your soul understands the depth of the interconnectedness of everything and everyone, how perfect each step is for the over all circle of your specific souls intention and creation. In this light, there really isn’t anything to fear, though we learn growing up in “society,” that we need to be careful, we try so hard to be loved and to love, not realizing that love is what we are made of, and that as we naturally be it, then we attract it and can fully open our hearts to receive it…then there is MORE releasing when you are opening and opening and opening more to truly receive the deepest love that your mind can perceive and your soul already knows…ah, believe me, it is intense, but completely worth it!
To specifically answer your question, when you are not physically in direct contact with your twin flame, it is natural for your souls/spirits to meet, connect, share, love, communicate in your dreams. This will only continue as you more forward along your path…as you both individually grow, heal, evolve, and move deeper into the space of unconditional love for self, each other and the world. Relish these dreams for they strengthen your spirit…write them down if you feel guided, and allow your intuition to allow yourself to receive the messages within them, the reassurance, the love. As far as him coming to the realization, don’t think about this from the mind but feel it from the heart…and bask in the connection you have right in this moment, if it is only in dreams and the love that bursts forth from your heart…there truly is no separation between twin flames even when the physical bodies are not beside each other or in direct contact…and you will become more aware of this and all of the layers of this truth as you continue forward on this journey. Many times twins create this physical separateness to enhance their ability to intuitively receive from each other and from life so as they naturally flow into being in this way, following the guidance in each moment when they finally merge together in all ways. Allow yourself to be in the moment, let your heart guide you towards the full union in all ways…and if your path leads you to another soul mate along the way, feel this in your heart if it is part of your journey…you will know in each moment…know that all the love that you feel in each moment and bring into your life, sharing with those around you only enhance both your twin, you and your union.