Healing Separation to Move into Union in Relationships
Feb29

Healing Separation to Move into Union in Relationships

For many years in our relationships, we have unconsciously been acting in separation, feeling that we are separate from one another, believing that we need separation in order to be together. It is now the time for us to become fully aware of what has been going on so that we can heal all of the emotions, actions, beliefs, perceptions of separation, which naturally brings us into a deeper vibration to welcome in and give out unconditional, limitless love. For so long, men and women have been weary of commitment because of the false associations that have gone along with it. In order to be with someone, to commit to spending your life with another, you have to give up your freedom, to give up your relationship with yourself and all the excitement that goes along with it. This would not be attractive to just about anyone and no wonder there has been so much conflict throughout the years. So what have we done? We reached outside of self for fulfillment and happiness, attaching to our partner, hoping that we can achieve the passion for being alive within this other. Honestly, your happiness truly comes from within you. You are meant to have the freedom to make your own choices, to follow your own path, to connect with your passion as you continuously bring it forth in your life. Somehow, we have been living the opposite in our relationships. Releasing separation within relationships is moving into the space of knowing that you can and do have the freedom to make your own choices, you can and should follow your own path as well as connect with what makes you feel alive on your own, AND that you can do all of this WITH a partner. Your partner as well has the freedom to do the same while also being with you. We’ve been following a path towards union based in separation…separation cannot lead to union, unless we bring our conscious awareness to the emotions, beliefs, actions we have been playing out so that we can willingly release them to be in union. We are always in union, meaning that it is our natural state. We are all connected and it is only our perception within the mind that creates the illusion that we are separate. Therefore, nothing really has to be “transformed,” just the illusions fall away to reveal the truth. I like to use the analogy of the number 11 to represent how a healthy relationship works. 11 is 1 and 1 which come together to create 11. Each person needs to develop their 1 (meaning their own...

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Self Love Enhances the Love For and With Your Twin Flame
Feb28

Self Love Enhances the Love For and With Your Twin Flame

Q. I have a question. During the time of a separation, are the twin flames able to gauge each others emotions at that moment. For instance, if I’m feeling a loneliness and a longing to be with my twin are they feeling that as well? Sometimes when just thinking/longing of my twin it feels like I have conversations in my head with him. I repeatedly tell him in our conversations that I miss him and I love him. And in some funny way, it feels like he misses me as well. I don’t know what to make of it because I don’t know if I’m being obsessive, or is this actually happening? I have never had this experience within any other relationship. However, during this separation in knowing that there is a need for self love and healing of any issues that I have had in the past. Could someone please tell me if they have ever experienced this? A. To answer your question right from the start here, yes, your twin flame is experiencing your emotions on many levels, and depending on how awakened your twin is, there may not be a full conscious awareness of what is being felt or how it is being felt, maybe even not completely able to distinguish that it isn’t his own feelings in the moment that they come. However, I’m willing to bet that at this point in our consciousness, your twin is consciously aware of your emotions and able to figure out that it is exactly his when he feels them. Pay attention and stay connected to the conversations you have in your head for the truth is that we are connected beyond direct physical contact and can love, communicate, share beyond our bodies. I like to say that the conversations you have in your head is just your open receptivity to hearing the communications that are always going on, that only the mind blocks from picking up on. Just as your twin can feel your emotions, the same is true for you. You can feel his emotions as well so it isn’t surprising that you feel like he is longing for you to. I have always loved the quote, “What you are seeking is seeking you,” for the truth in this is that the energy that you put out into the universe has to be opened up in vibration to begin to be attracted to you. When you become aware of your twin flame, it is because your soul has remembered you have intended to connect in this lifetime, and therefore each step is essential leading up to that...

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Sacred Sexuality
Feb28

Sacred Sexuality

I am asking you to be present within your intimate relationship you are in at this moment. I don’t mean aware and sharing on a surface level, but on the deepest level that is possible. I ask you to open your heart profoundly to the essence within your partner, the one you slept beside last night and woke up to this morning. Whether you are consciously aware of your twin flame, whether your current partner is your twin flame or not, love that being you are connected with deeply as if he/she is God because the truth is that he/she is the essence of God in human form. The more you allow yourself to love all of the aspects of who you are and merge your energy into the sharing of love with your partner, the more you see God, the more you feel God, the more you become God together. What happens when you open to this overwhelming, powerful force of ecstatic love is that you affect all of creation, bringing all of us into union with you. When you move further along your spiritual journey, you choose to open yourself in the deepest space of love, therefore the decision to share in the making of love with your body comes from your heart and not from the physical urges of the temporal. This is where you enter into sacred sexuality, as when you love with another who is choosing to love in the same way, you become God and create God anew throughout the cosmos. Everyone is affected by this merging, for God is the perfect balance of feminine and masculine energies, and when the God and the Goddess merge, complete unity is achieved, creation is born. Literally, healing on all levels can happen here. Separation is merely an illusion…we are all connected…I must remind you that you are here to love, to love deeper in every moment, within every relationship, for as you do this, you raise the vibration of unconditional divine love on this planet. Embrace each moment in love…let it flow, and watch yourself...

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It is Essential to Release Separation to Move into Union with your Twin Flame

This is a call to both men and women (the masculine and feminine energies), to open your heart deeper and deeper to the truth that union is present in every moment, within every relationship and experience in your life. I am urging you to see how you may be feeling separation, believing in separation, and acting from separation in your life so that you can heal this to move into union. For so long, individually and collectively, we have been falsely believing that we need to create separation in relationships for the perception that in order to BE together, we have to keep our natural essence hidden, what we are so passionate about, separate from one we love all from the fear of it being taken away. The truth of union is that we are already connected, so separation is merely an illusion…if we are connected, then what you are passionate about and what your loved one is passionate about can merge together to form a beautiful co-creation. These co-creations in union will then enhance everything else…as it is already doing so…it is only the perception of separation that sees the...

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I Surrender, My Love
Feb24

I Surrender, My Love

You reach out to me, I hear your voice softly whispering my name, twice and then I am frozen in place, receiving the energy of you as it flows throughout me, born again, reenergized anew, created for you, for this. I haven’t given up, for how can a flower refuse to bloom when the sun’s warmth is surrounding it, the water from the heavens sustaining it and the love from the earth containing it…yet it seems that these tears that are flowing are healing the pains and the attachments to the separation that has us all running away from ourselves. In the deepest depths of our heart, we want to come together, to defy the limitations and perceptions that claim solitude is necessary. The insight from the skies are within us, and if this is so, then we merely have to embrace each other to receive an abundance of the sight so sweetly embedded IN us. It is no longer enough to say that we are one, to acknowledge this to our minds which are so eager to grasp onto something for control and false security, for it is essential that we truly act as though we are one…and if we are aware that we are one, what is keeping us from basking in this love between us, immersing out spirits in this glue that connects us, rolling around in this creative field of heaven weaving us so intimately into each other? I surrender my love, the blank page, as it haunts me with its overflowing capacity to tease me into submission, has the well run dry? What am I here to do and how can I do it without the sweetness in the deepness of the kindness within your eyes as you love me again and again, reminding me of my essence again and again, fondling the seeds of my being into ecstasy by being, intimacy, into me see…yes you do as I do you. How can you interweave the melodies of your soul into the vibration of all that is without my tender caress over your soft dimpled skin, pushing our love juice into the folds of your bloodstream, breathing newness and aliveness into the vessel of your temple… These tears that are flowing are healing the pains and the attachments to the separation as its intricate illusions that seem so real float away before me…and again, I hear you whisper my name, reminding me that you are here with me, though my mind grasps so hard at anything to control the fantasy that it believes is meant to harm me…this battle between my heart and my...

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