Self Love Enhances the Love For and With Your Twin Flame
Q. I have a question. During the time of a separation, are the twin flames able to gauge each others emotions at that moment. For instance, if I’m feeling a loneliness and a longing to be with my twin are they feeling that as well? Sometimes when just thinking/longing of my twin it feels like I have conversations in my head with him. I repeatedly tell him in our conversations that I miss him and I love him. And in some funny way, it feels like he misses me as well. I don’t know what to make of it because I don’t know if I’m being obsessive, or is this actually happening? I have never had this experience within any other relationship. However, during this separation in knowing that there is a need for self love and healing of any issues that I have had in the past. Could someone please tell me if they have ever experienced this?
A. To answer your question right from the start here, yes, your twin flame is experiencing your emotions on many levels, and depending on how awakened your twin is, there may not be a full conscious awareness of what is being felt or how it is being felt, maybe even not completely able to distinguish that it isn’t his own feelings in the moment that they come. However, I’m willing to bet that at this point in our consciousness, your twin is consciously aware of your emotions and able to figure out that it is exactly his when he feels them. Pay attention and stay connected to the conversations you have in your head for the truth is that we are connected beyond direct physical contact and can love, communicate, share beyond our bodies. I like to say that the conversations you have in your head is just your open receptivity to hearing the communications that are always going on, that only the mind blocks from picking up on.
Just as your twin can feel your emotions, the same is true for you. You can feel his emotions as well so it isn’t surprising that you feel like he is longing for you to. I have always loved the quote, “What you are seeking is seeking you,” for the truth in this is that the energy that you put out into the universe has to be opened up in vibration to begin to be attracted to you. When you become aware of your twin flame, it is because your soul has remembered you have intended to connect in this lifetime, and therefore each step is essential leading up to that reunion. You are absolutely right in the importance of self love in this between time, because as you love yourself, you love your twin and allow your twin to love himself more, as this becomes a neverending circle of increasing unconditional love for self…then when you look upon your twin and your twin looks upon you, the love for self is magnified as you see you within your twin, naturally enhancing the love for your twin and yourself all in the same moment…and then this love extends out into the cosmos, affecting everyone, all that is. This deep eternal love is powerful and the journey is so exciting…please don’t focus on the destination itself but enjoy every step along your path leading up to it, knowing that you are together, merging closer, and co-creating in this moment, which is in preparation for when you come together to continue creating in all ways.