Q. I’ve had dreams about my twin flame for several years. Even now, he still comes and goes from my dreams.
I first saw him almost two years ago, after several days of having vivid dreams about him. We saw each other from across a crowd, and the connection was so intense that I had to look away for just a couple seconds…only to lose eye contact the rest of the night. Unfortunately, we didn’t have a conversation until I saw him again a year later, and he was in a relationship. There was some friction in our first encounter, but things have mellowed out since then. He has let me into his life because we have so many close friends in common. For now, we remain friends through contact with our mutual friends. Sometimes we experience pure joy hanging out, and other times, we can’t even look directly at each other; we just sit in the same room with others.
Since I’ve always believed we’ll end up together, I’m hoping it will turn into something romantic in the near future, if he chooses to become single again. I still experience doubt because I never expected to find him in a serious relationship with someone else. Do runners ever “return”? He even ran from me in a recent dream when I tried to find him to tell him we’re soul mates.
A. Well, first of all, “runners” have never left, because the truth is that twin flames are always connected, even when not in physical, direct relationship with one another. Through the eyes of Spirit and union, you can see that this is the case, and you can feel right now your twin flame with you, in dreams, through your emotions, your inspiration, your thoughts, your heart and soul. Many times we do encounter the twin flame when either one or both twins are in a relationship with a soul mate. This enables both twins to move deeper into the vibration of unconditional love while they respect the twins free will choice in any moment, knowing that the love shared with another only serves to enhance the love shared with all involved, for truly there is no separation in union consciousness.
When you experience your twin in a dream, it’s always important to observe what is happening and how you are feeling as a result, for the dreams allow you to see your own growth as well as what may be lurking underneath the surface there for you to witness, and therefore, take action towards shifting it. The twin is the clearest mirror for you of who you are so if you are seeing your twin running away from you in the dream, I would encourage you to take a look within yourself…are there any fears there, any perceptions of relationship and love to be healed? Fear can come up when encountering and interacting with the twin, for the intensity of the connection/love pushes both twins to move deeper within themselves, bringing on the strong emotions of pain, of separation, of disappointments and expectations, attachments and illusions of separation.
The best thing that you can do in this “time” between when you are in all ways with your twin flame is to connect with the passion inside of you, and bring this passion more fully into your life experience, for as you do this, you send the excitement, the growth to your twin flame also. As you become more profoundly comfortable in your skin, recognizing what your individual mission/purpose is in this world, which you do have, then you allow your twin the chances to do the same and to recognize what your mission is together in this lifetime. Please remember that every step is beautiful and part of the masterpiece that is yours to walk, and all steps lead to home, all steps lead to reunion. (Union = you and I as one, and reunion = remembering that you and I are one). As you remember that in every moment, you are loving deeper, growing through, and co-creating with your twin flame, regardless of the physical connection, the more your heart opens to experience the bliss of unconditional love in all ways and with all that is.