Pulling Away to Pull you Within: Self Love and Love for Twin and All That is Goes Hand in Hand
Q. I have never been in a better place in my life. I am open, loving, centered, serene. I feel powerful but in such a true and gentle way. Then all of a sudden I’m getting shunned by a Soul Mate and now my twin flame. I am being honest and open. I’m offering friendship and asking for nothing. But I’m being treated like something is wrong with me or I’m some kind of stalker. The better place I get to…the more my twin flame is seeming to pull away…and he’s not the only one. What is THIS all about? It’s kind of funny. I started a relationship/friendship recently with an ex whom hurt me deeply in the past. I forgave him and we were building a great friendship based of forgiveness. I felt great about this! I felt beautiful, strong, happy, giving. Never felt more confident. Then all of a sudden he dumps me and tells me I’m not “enough” for him. Thank God I have grown and it only took me a few days to get over the disappointment, but what in the world is this all about?? I’m confused!(still happy and stable within though).
A. The twin fame journey is about remembering the eternal, sacred depth of love within and without as you bring this love through in all moments, all relationships, all experiences. So therefore, you have and will have many and various opportunities to see what may seem like pulling away and dumping transformed into another chance for you to strengthen the love within. It is within you, you immerse your energy again into the natural essence of love that IS you, renewing your trust and your remembrance of the love that you ARE, that has never left you for it IS you. As a result, you become excited to want to express this love…and as you be the love you are in expression, you will attract others who are in alignment with your love vibration.
I can sense that flowing through your question is a perception that you are being rejected, judged, abandoned…and I encourage you to look at the circumstances you relate here as opportunities to move deeper in love with yourself, with those whom you feel may be “pulling away” (your twin flame or a soul mate) and with all that is. The more that you can see, feel and be the love in the midst of what seems like a lack of love, the more you increase the vibration of love for all involved, and this spirals out, affecting everyone and increasing the love for all as ONE and all that is. Stay connected to that confidence flowing through you, no matter what happens, and let your love flow through in expression everywhere.