Q. So many shocking things have been happening in and around my life and some miracles too. I am seeing my loved ones going through emotional and physical turmoil. It is so painful and I am trying to bring the balance outside of me to be with them and help them through. In fact yesterday, my siblings appealed to me to help them through their period of crisis, saying that I am spiritually connected and that I can help them. Though one them abused me badly on many occasions , I see them come back and apologize And seek my help. Here I am empathizing and doing my best to help. I have not had so many upheavels coming like this back to back. It is exhausting. I do not know where this figures in my twin flame journey. My twin flame is still the same. He stills keeps a huge distance. What do I make of it ? He is neither here nor there. Sometimes when I text deep intense emotions, he accepts them all. Sometimes he just shuts off and does not want to receive any messages from me. This is going on and on and on. Now I am so exhausted , so much so that I think all this is my wishful thinking. Every time I keep getting messages to hold on and not let go at this final leg of the journey.
What is it? Why is he still claiming that he wants me but never makes any effort to be with me ? What do you think he is expecting . All my expressions of love to him are received but verbally he says , he feels no emotion. Why is he projecting himself like this to me? A few months back when, I said that I cannot hurt him anymore and kept away, he called back and spoke to me. Then it was back to square A.
There is something here that I am missing . Maybe I am too emotional to see it. What is being expected of me ? All my soul searching has finally led to be more balanced in my relationships, but regarding my twin flame, I do not know where I stand. One day, you mentioned that you heard a whisper, “the outcome is assured ” and you guided me to go ahead with faith. I have. I hold on to faith, trust, love , stay in the divine flow, but at times like this, I start getting serious doubts , and feel lost. Can you see a pattern and discern what I am missing out on and where I should set things right? When do you feel this reunion will happen?
A. As you share with your own consciousness and with others, you are also sharing with your twin flame ~ feel that, feel that every open exchange is an exchange between you and your divine Beloved, as this Beloved energy continues to flow in and out, bringing us ALL into the arms of the sacred love that we are. Let go of expectations of self and twin…just be…flow…when you let go of expectations, then there isn’t any concern of “when” the outcome will show itself to you and you don’t need any signs outside of your self to confirm what you have received and what you are deeply connected to. You allow the outcome to take care of itself, to unfold as it will, yet you flow with your guidance and emotions in each moment ~ if you want to express yourself, you do it, but that expression no longer requires an outside sign or reassurance from your Beloved in order for you to stay connected to what you deeply feel ~ that “the outcome is assured.” This moves you into a space of surrendering into what is right now and therefore, the outcome is not only not focused upon, but merges into union with what IS right now… you experience yourself into it, and then the WHOLE picture of all of the steps that have unfolded and needed to happen before the “outcome” fully becomes realized and experienced in your life, make sense. It all fits together, the puzzle within your perception is made whole, brought into the oneness that it always has been.
Release the expectations on yourself, that you have to do something for your twin to “prove” his love for you, to move closer to you, to do anything really to show that he loves you. Know that beyond any tangible proof, he loves you, you love him, your love flows always within each moment…and let that truth sustain you while you focus on balancing the vibration of love within you as you bring that balanced expression of love into all of your relationships, your perceptions, your creations in all areas of your life. As you have shared, all of your relationships are becoming balanced as a result of you staying deeply connected and your commitment to balancing the love that you are within yourself as you extend this love forward…this will continue…and this balancing you are doing for you, you are also doing for and with your Beloved which in turn affects all as ONE…this is the path of experiencing yourself in union with the love that you are. This is transcending the illusions and limitations of love to continue to move into the expansion and truth of the infinite vibration of divine love that knows only love, perceives only love, chooses to express and be only love. Within this transcendence you flow into balance with love, dancing further into the experience of your oneness and love…no longer attached to anything “outside” of you, but loving, being, and feeling the sweetness within you at all times. Let yourself surrender, right here and now, to how you are, how your twin is, how things are, right now, knowing that it’s all about moving deeper within love and bringing that wellspring of love into expression with all that is, in every moment.
Consider transforming and even transcending your perception of the “huge” distance ~ I know that you know that there truly is no separation, yet the separation has been created so that we can remember ourselves into the experience of the oneness and love that we are…hence we are merging into the union that already is through the illusion of separation. The “huge” distance becomes lessened when not only do we see this, but we penetrate the layers, the surface of this illusion and move into the depths of the truth that lies within the experiencing of observing and remembering the illusion away. Reality takes on a whole other vision then…think of the vision of a tug of rope ~ the illusion is that you are far away from the other pushing and pulling on the rope ~ but then the more you surrender the struggle and the illusion of fighting against what is, you move closer and closer together, as you feel yourself moving closer ~ hence experiencing the oneness and love that you are!
Remember “reunion” is remembering union ~ remembering you and I (you and your twin with all that is) on a journey of experiencing the oneness and love that is…as you bring this consistently into expression within and without, you merge into union within the experiencing of that oneness, you become one in all ways with it, and walk into the love, deeper and deeper.