Embrace Your Happiness
Feb12

Embrace Your Happiness

I always feel it within me when one passes on…and since Whitney Houston transitioned yesterday, I felt the need to share this all with you… There really is a force that is felt when one spirit leaves the body and returns to Source. It is in those moments that you have an opportunity to look at your life to see if you are creating all that you desire. And if not, wouldn’t now be the time to take steps towards it? Embrace those that you love, do what you’ve been fearing to do. Why? Because you DESERVE the very best…this is always the truth, and it’s only the mind that can twist this around. There’s nothing you need to be happy, but doing what you love, and sharing in your love, while knowing that you bring happiness to it all. Your happiness is in your hands, why not embrace it? If you are embracing it, embrace it more fully, squeeze it, kiss it, be in...

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Coming Back Together with My Twin Flame
Nov28

Coming Back Together with My Twin Flame

Q. I met my twin about six months ago. I knew he was my twin right off. Before saying hello on the phone we giggled a little because it was kinda weird. His comment when we met and spent some time together was I feel like we have known each other for years. We complement each other and have many life experiences in common…it truly is like meeting yourself…we call each other “wonder twins”. However a couple of months ago I got scared of losing him and violated his trust. This was so out of character for me. He refuses to return my calls or make contact. We both had a lot on our plates and I don’t think it would have been a good time to be together( I think I subconciously messed up on purpose) but I now know he IS the one and we are not really separated. I need to take this “break” to work on myself and explore my passion…and the person I am meant to be. Will we get back together…? A. You would be the one to know whether you will come back together again. You just need to connect with the truth and inner knowing deeply embedded within you for your contract with your twin in this lifetime. Sometimes, you meet up with your twin in the physical, which of course creates an acceleration of spiritual awakening on many levels, and then physically separate to continue the growth and “work on yourself” as you mention. Very good that you acknowledge that this time away from direct contact with your twin allows for you to focus and concentrate on you, exploring your passion, being present in the moment and allowing yourself the many opportunities of choosing happiness right now. I teach so much about the importance of connecting with the passion inside of you as you bring that passion into your life and how this connection to your passion as well as your happiness is sent to your twin, for you truly are never separated. Twin flames do take on a mission together, so the best thing that you can do while apart (and always a part of each other) is to focus on what you are passionate about, and how to bring it more fully into your life in service to the world and others, for it is that passion that will join with your twins to help you to both, together give to each other and the world. Know that you are always becoming more deeply the person that you are, and that is the person you are meant to...

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Happy Love Day Every Day
Feb14

Happy Love Day Every Day

Today is Valentine’s Day and it is considered the day where we express our love to those we are in relationship with. However, I want to bring out the idea that love is really a choice to share in with yourself and others, to be expressed within your relationships, and to be part of your experiences EVERY DAY. This can be a state of being, a choice to operate and vibrate in the place of love rather than fear. So if that is so, then this day isn’t any different from any other day. It is just another day that offers you the chance to choose again to come from the place of love. This day, therefore, doesn’t have to bring about feelings of loneliness unless we choose that to be the case. The other thing to remember is that we are never separated from those we love, we are always connected to them, even if we are not physically beside the ones we love. If you are single or if your loved one is not physically near you right now, you are still connected. Our energies are messed together forever with those that are vibrational matches to who we are. It is the mind that can perceive of separation, focusing on that perception which can then cause loneliness and tears. But again, remember, this is a choice. Love is within you and your happiness comes from within you. You are happy and then bring that happiness to anything you experience, whether it be a relationship or anything really. I wanted to offer you some tips of how you can share love with yourself if you are single or even if you are in a relationship… ~~ Read a book you find interesting in silence, either in a comfy space in your home or in nature. Sometimes when we go along a journey with a character, we receive inspiration we can take within our own lives. If we are reading a self help book, we can receive insight into our own lives and can incorporate those things within our own experience of life and love. ~~Spend some quiet time just resting, laying down, sitting, whatever is comfortable for you and do nothing. We can get into hectic schedules and routines of doing so much that we don’t often take the time to do nothing. Doing nothing can be so rewarding for it offers our spirits a chance to refresh, just breathing and being, totally as we are, releasing the mind and all we feel we have to do. ~~ Laugh. This sounds simple, but really, how easy it is...

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Being Happy Requires Self Awareness, Releasing Assumptions, and not Taking Things Personally
Oct05

Being Happy Requires Self Awareness, Releasing Assumptions, and not Taking Things Personally

I have many people ask me what is the problem within their relationship with their partner. First, I have to say that there is never a “problem” but rather things to work on or let go of. Don Miguel Ruiz says to never take things personally, never make assumptions, and only be responsible for your half of a relationship. I am going to explain these in some detail here for you. Nothing that anyone you are choosing to have a relationship with ever does anything deliberately against you. That person is only acting and reacting because of her own life experiences as well as the ideas that she has agreed to believe throughout her experiences. SO, what happens then when someone starts snapping at us because they are feeling not so pleasant with the emotions that may creep up on them in the moment? Has this happened to you? How did you feel? What happens often in this scenario is that the other person starts taking the way that their lover is acting as personal and all these unpleasant thoughts are brought to their mind, which in turn creates unpleasant feelings, which can then create a defensive action. This defensive action most often than not creates another action on the part of the lover because now he feels a need to defend himself. This could go on and on, like ping pong, until one or both people stop it. How can you stop it? Very easily, however it requires you to be self aware, and other than communication being an important part of a healthy relationship, self awareness is the first step that aids within communication. What does being self aware mean? Well, let’s go back to the above scenario and expound on it. Let me give you an exact example that you can consider. Your partner is washing dishes but he doesn’t enjoy the task and it can seem a lot like work for him. He starts snapping, not at you, just snapping in general. He says, “I hate washing dishes, maybe I’ll just get some dishwashing liquid to start using the dishwasher.” In the middle of washing, he just turns the water off, still in a state of frustration with the whole thing. Now, you have options on how you can choose to react (because your reactions and actions are always a choice). You can start taking his words personally in that he is accusing you of not washing the dishes enough and say, “why are you snapping at me? I wash the dishes too,” OR you could choose to let his emotions be released in the...

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