Transitioning Out of a Soul Mate Relationship

Q When you feel you are transitioning out of a soul relationship… What if you are married to your soul mate and he or she does not want to end the current relationship? Should you stay in the marriage? How should you approach this? A You may have heard this before but the best thing to do is to listen to your heart and what feels true and right for you. Sometimes, we can be quick to end a relationship when we are challenged rather than going through the roller coaster ride of emotions as we release the ego and really open to hearing the other person’s perspective as they share their feelings, needs, etc. It sounds like you are concerned about what his desires are for your relationship, meaning that you may stay in the relationship because of that, and I would say that if you are also feeling this way, then stay in the relationship and do the best you can to work it out. The best thing when there are challenges that come up in a relationship is to have open, healthy communication. What I mean by that is allowing the other person to express what he is feeling without interruption and without judgment, even and especially if you don’t agree. Then you can express your own feelings in a non attacking manner. I recommend to my clients to say, “I feel,” a lot because it places the responsibility on you and not accusing the other person of anything, but just openly expressing how you both feel. The other thing is to know that nothing the other person says is personal against you. We react and interact in relationship with others from our previous experiences, our beliefs, behavior patterns, etc, so how we choose to be in any situation is from what we know. Pay attention to what your heart is telling you, is this question coming from your inner voice confirming to you that you feel this transition occurring? Place yourself in the emotions you would feel if you were not in this relationship anymore, how do you feel? Imagine yourself resolving things and staying in this relationship, how do you feel? Is it your feelings that are telling you this or is it your soul mates or is others opinions? You are the one that is in this experience and not those who are around you, so it is best that you follow what you deeply know in your heart. Let it steer you…if you decide to transition out of this relationship, I would recommend still having open and healthy communication which will make...

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Believe in Twin Flames or Not

Q Why is it some people do not believe in Twinflames? I had a psychic reader tell me that I have many soulmates but she said she does not believe in Twinflames. A Sometimes, people are not ready to hear such information or they do not choose to be open to that experience in this lifetime. It is not a bad thing for it is just a choice. This is one reason why twin flames may not come together in a lifetime because one of them may not choose to step forward into that belief and feel its truth. We all have to respect each other on our particular journeys. What you know is truth for you is there for you and not for anyone else. No one can take away your truth or change your truth unless you allow them to. Feel what is true for you, and know that it is your comfort, your knowing that guides your experience in life and love. This is an opportunity for you to reconnect with your internal guidance and also to grow within unconditional love as you respect this psychic like you desire her to respect you. That doesn’t mean you have to agree, but you allow each other to feel and believe what you do without taking it personally. Also you don’t need anyone outside of you to tell you what you know…because when we attempt to do that, we will get others opinions and emotions…if we choose to go to others, know that ultimately we are the only ones that can know and remember our own...

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