Love Yourself, Love Your Beloved, Love All, and then Do it Again. Love, Love, Love.
Feb11

Love Yourself, Love Your Beloved, Love All, and then Do it Again. Love, Love, Love.

Q. I have been in the awareness of knowing who may be my twin soul. Yet a reoccurring soul issue has been running or him not aligning to his own divine knowing. Is there something that can encourage him to speak to me in the near future. Or something I should work on to assist? A. Every moment, every experience, brings us to aligning or remembering our divine intentions for creation in this lifetime…divine knowing as you mention…and all is always, all ways, flowing in perfection to be experienced step by step bringing about the whole of it all. Is there something you can do to bring about seeing the proof of his divine knowing? See, the thing is, you can’t quite be sure if his knowing or remembrance has fully awakened or not, but you can know that you mirror one another and will continue to do this as you move along…so that the more you focus on your own awakening and creation, the more you give this openness to your Beloved…trust what you feel, and what your inner guidance mixed with the guidance of the universe gives to you. Q. That makes so much sense. I just find there have been some negative people who block both energies. So I find he puts blinders on- as a defense mechanism of sorts. Sometimes or of late I wonder if he only wishes to see fault in me? A. Know that with the twin flame, it is essential to and almost impossible not to look in the mirror ~ meaning when one twin looks at the “faults” in another, it will come up for them to notice and acknowledge it within themselves…it is a journey that encourages you to go within just as much as you look to the twin…the self love and the love of the outer self in the embodiment of the twin…as you allow your love of your self to grow, so you allow the love of your twin to grow…blocking one blocks the other…it is a journey of constantly opening your heart even when it is perceived to be painful, for pain is chosen…it doesn’t have to hurt…or if it does, ease into the pain for it will pass. The love is always there, as it will grow stronger to embrace you after the waves of emotions flow...

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Pulling Away to Pull you Within: Self Love and Love for Twin and All That is Goes Hand in Hand
Jan21

Pulling Away to Pull you Within: Self Love and Love for Twin and All That is Goes Hand in Hand

Q. I have never been in a better place in my life. I am open, loving, centered, serene. I feel powerful but in such a true and gentle way. Then all of a sudden I’m getting shunned by a Soul Mate and now my twin flame. I am being honest and open. I’m offering friendship and asking for nothing. But I’m being treated like something is wrong with me or I’m some kind of stalker. The better place I get to…the more my twin flame is seeming to pull away…and he’s not the only one. What is THIS all about? It’s kind of funny. I started a relationship/friendship recently with an ex whom hurt me deeply in the past. I forgave him and we were building a great friendship based of forgiveness. I felt great about this! I felt beautiful, strong, happy, giving. Never felt more confident. Then all of a sudden he dumps me and tells me I’m not “enough” for him. Thank God I have grown and it only took me a few days to get over the disappointment, but what in the world is this all about?? I’m confused!(still happy and stable within though). A. The twin fame journey is about remembering the eternal, sacred depth of love within and without as you bring this love through in all moments, all relationships, all experiences. So therefore, you have and will have many and various opportunities to see what may seem like pulling away and dumping transformed into another chance for you to strengthen the love within. It is within you, you immerse your energy again into the natural essence of love that IS you, renewing your trust and your remembrance of the love that you ARE, that has never left you for it IS you. As a result, you become excited to want to express this love…and as you be the love you are in expression, you will attract others who are in alignment with your love vibration. I can sense that flowing through your question is a perception that you are being rejected, judged, abandoned…and I encourage you to look at the circumstances you relate here as opportunities to move deeper in love with yourself, with those whom you feel may be “pulling away” (your twin flame or a soul mate) and with all that is. The more that you can see, feel and be the love in the midst of what seems like a lack of love, the more you increase the vibration of love for all involved, and this spirals out, affecting everyone and increasing the love for all as ONE and all...

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Mirror, Mirror of my Twin, What are You Revealing Within?
Sep03

Mirror, Mirror of my Twin, What are You Revealing Within?

Q. I think this is the hardest part for me to do. I feel I have met my twin and through alot of turmoil and tears, we are seperated at the moment. I have learned so much about the twin flame experience since being seperated. I would say that I am the chaser of the two. I just remember the feeling and the declarations we had in the beginning. Now it seems that it is some sort of mind game or power struggle. I truly am getting drained both mentally and emotionally. I have cried enough. Now im surrendering out of sheer exhaustion. Is that what usually happens? Help! A. So tell me what is the hardest part for you? Is it the releasing fears? Is it allowing yourself to be present to what is happening right now in this moment even in the midst of what you feel is not happening? What is or is not happening is all connected, and consistently calls you to go within. Honestly, this is where the feelings of exhaustion can come from, as through this journey we are encouraged again and again, to go within – going again within…because through the tears, through the “turmoil,” we have continuous opportunities to see why we are creating them. We do create the tears and the turmoil, for tears come from feeling separation (separation from Source, from self, from your twin) and turmoil comes from the same, but also not desiring to see that perfection is always in every moment, and that there is something for you to receive within any and every moment that unfolds along your journey, just as there are things that you give each moment to others. The beauty, and some may call it the curse (yet this perception doesn’t exist when you see the truth of this love), of this twin flame love and connection/relationship is that it molds you and makes you to become the best representation of God that you can be, as your 1(on your own) and as your 11 (your union with our twin) but in order to allow for this, you have to be willing to go deep, to move past the old paradigms of relationship (such as blame, conditions, roles, rules – outdated ways of reacting, responding and being in love) to BE the love that you feel and desire to experience, while allowing yourself to be loved through the steps along your journey that seem to be against you. Your twin is not against you…nor is your union distanced from you…it is here right now…it is all unfolding right now…and each moment, you...

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Self Love Enhances the Love For and With Your Twin Flame
Feb28

Self Love Enhances the Love For and With Your Twin Flame

Q. I have a question. During the time of a separation, are the twin flames able to gauge each others emotions at that moment. For instance, if I’m feeling a loneliness and a longing to be with my twin are they feeling that as well? Sometimes when just thinking/longing of my twin it feels like I have conversations in my head with him. I repeatedly tell him in our conversations that I miss him and I love him. And in some funny way, it feels like he misses me as well. I don’t know what to make of it because I don’t know if I’m being obsessive, or is this actually happening? I have never had this experience within any other relationship. However, during this separation in knowing that there is a need for self love and healing of any issues that I have had in the past. Could someone please tell me if they have ever experienced this? A. To answer your question right from the start here, yes, your twin flame is experiencing your emotions on many levels, and depending on how awakened your twin is, there may not be a full conscious awareness of what is being felt or how it is being felt, maybe even not completely able to distinguish that it isn’t his own feelings in the moment that they come. However, I’m willing to bet that at this point in our consciousness, your twin is consciously aware of your emotions and able to figure out that it is exactly his when he feels them. Pay attention and stay connected to the conversations you have in your head for the truth is that we are connected beyond direct physical contact and can love, communicate, share beyond our bodies. I like to say that the conversations you have in your head is just your open receptivity to hearing the communications that are always going on, that only the mind blocks from picking up on. Just as your twin can feel your emotions, the same is true for you. You can feel his emotions as well so it isn’t surprising that you feel like he is longing for you to. I have always loved the quote, “What you are seeking is seeking you,” for the truth in this is that the energy that you put out into the universe has to be opened up in vibration to begin to be attracted to you. When you become aware of your twin flame, it is because your soul has remembered you have intended to connect in this lifetime, and therefore each step is essential leading up to that...

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Releasing Fears and Increasing Self Love to Welcome in Twin Flame ReUnion
Dec16

Releasing Fears and Increasing Self Love to Welcome in Twin Flame ReUnion

Q. I truly believe in my heart that I met my soul mate this summer. I was rather shocked and if I’m honest a bit scared of the intensity of the meeting and long story short we did not end up speaking to each other for the brief time we met. It’s a rather long story but I actually became aware of him before we met and now really just want to be with him all the time. I understand what you mean when you say that twin flames are never really apart but he lives in a different country, I can’t stop thinking about him and worry at times that the fear I felt (and maybe he felt too) the day we met may mean we will not meet again. What are your feelings about this? A. Fear can absolutely come up when you meet your twin flame, because, as you mention, it is a very intense awakening of your soul. What is necessary and what almost inevitably follows the meeting of your twin soul is the awareness of the fears that are coming up, and a deepening of self love. The twin flame journey is one of deep unconditional love and as you move more fully into this space, more fears will come up. They aren’t coming up for you to resist this deeper love, but rather to move through them so that you can experience in all ways this beautiful, intense love of twin flames. Not only are you to walk through your fears and increase your capacity for self love (as this only enhances the love you have for your twin as your twin is the clearest mirror for you of who you are), but also to release the emotions, beliefs, behaviors of separation. As you know and as you mentioned, you are not separated as you are a part of each other, so intricately intertwined. Since being physically “separated” from him, you have many opportunities of releasing the emotions and belief that you are separated to move into the knowing that you are so deeply connected. One of the benefits and purpose of physical separation with your twin is to be able to feel this separation on a human level so that you can move into the spiritual perspective of seeing that it is impossible for you to ever be separated. With this comes calmness and an acceptance of what is as you know that what you are experiencing right now is in the divine flow of preparation for your full reunion with your twin. Don’t doubt your connection or put the focus on...

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