Continuing to Heal the Separation as We Move Consciously into Union
Mar21

Continuing to Heal the Separation as We Move Consciously into Union

Gosh, it is truly amazing how we continuously want to move into the separation in all areas…and how DEEPLY this is embedded unconsciously in our psyches. I have realized that the more aware I become of the pieces of separation mentality that creep in, I feel a tightening in my head, my shoulders scrunch up, and I just start FEELING frustration. It’s almost like I can’t take it anymore and I want to lash out, like fall off my chair, rip a piece of paper or just scream…I encourage you to have patience with yourself as you witness the separation coming into your conscious awareness in each moment that it does, allow the feelings to pass, and then when you feel at more of a calmer place, act or do nothing, follow your guidance. You are not alone in this as I know I’m not either. What brought this on just now? I felt an unwanted and unpleasant invasion of comparison, which is based in separation…when you are in the space of union and love, you don’t start comparing your worth to anothers or vice versa. You recognize that your worth is awesome and the others worth is a reflection of your own…and that we are not here to step over each other, to put each other down, but in being our highest expression of ourselves in each moment, we rise up together. My success is not separate from your experience, the love in your heart increases the love within my own… How long we have been unconsciously rolling this tape of separation as it is so strong, so intense and so deeply programmed into our beings that it takes a willingness, it takes an ever softening patience to delve into the recesses that pop up in our thoughts, our emotions, our behaviors, our actions, to bring out the light of the program we have been following. Pay attention dear ones when you are feeling uncomfortable in your body, when your head starts to get foggy and tight, when you’re feeling frustrated…what are you doing when this arises? After you become aware of what you are doing, it will become easier to see what you are thinking, and then allow yourself to let the emotions flow, transform your perception. What will happen? You will begin to experience the stillness, you will feel lighter, and you will see the connection with everyone/everything you were previously envisioning as separate from you. Healing...

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The Transformation of the Perception of Forgiveness from the Perspective of Union
Mar12

The Transformation of the Perception of Forgiveness from the Perspective of Union

Q. Could you speak on twin flames and forgiveness? A. This is a great topic! Forgiveness is a two part process, on a human level and a spiritual level. From a human standpoint, it may seem necessary to forgive the twin flame for whatever reason the mind can attach to that which would need to be released. However from a spiritual perspective, there truly is no need to forgive. Let me explain…as discussed in previous blogs, questions answered and what will be expressed in detail in my second book, is the awareness of soul contracts/agreements. Before physical incarnation, your soul has agreed with not only your twin soul but other souls what you will accomplish together when in these human bodies, when you would come in contact with one another, what would be healed, created, expressed, shared, etc., so therefore, if the “challenges” or bumps along the journey have already been planned, there truly is nothing to forgive. Forgiving = to be thankful to the soul supplying the experience *for giving* you the opportunity to grow within unconditional love, to heal any aspects of perceiving separation (the need to forgive – seeing something done to you as separate from your creation and done TO you rather than WITH you), to heal, move ever deeper into the truth of union (you and I as one), which is always present. There is truly nothing to forgive in the human sense with our twin flames, yet there are emotions, actions, beliefs of separation that are constantly coming up within our psyche for us to be aware of so that they can be healed by being released from our energy field, our consciousness. We are moving ever further into the reality of union consciousness, stepping away from separation mentality. Encountering our twins, becoming consciously aware of the presence and connection we have with our twin flames accelerates the process of moving from this energy field of separation into union, and it can be done regardless of whether you are physically merged with your twin flame or not, for the truth is that separation is only an illusion, and union is always present. We do carry with us in our cellular DNA, the individual and collective memory of the original split/physical separation from our twin flames, with each other, and from Source (all of these three aspects), and it is in feeling the human emotions of this that we transform/change our cellular DNA to recognize only union, becoming ever more aware of when separation mentality is seeping its way into our sight/our experience. The forgiveness, therefore, on a human level is to acknowledge and...

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Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion
Nov23

Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion

Q. So I’ve met my twin flame but I’m currently in a relationship. One which is very loving. I’m so pulled to be around my twin and we communicate regularly on the Internet sharing our experiences and life story. The reason we figured out we were twins is because of the many synchronicities we started to notice. One big one was our love for the number 11:11. he actually has a tattoo of it and I was planning on getting one. I added him as a friend on an 11:11 Facebook page to make friends of like minds. He messaged me a long message about his beliefs on what’s occurring on the planet and I felt super comfortable with his words automatically and a feeling of excitement came over me. As the synchronicitys continued and our spiritual paths and understanding were almost exact we both were wondering what was going on. This is around the time I was ready to get out of what I call my dark days of my ascension. I almost feel bad for having this intense love for someone else besides my boyfriends and the longing to b with my twin. And do some real work together. He understands my position and is supportive and comforting. I have grown alot since our connection. I’m learning unconditional love for all. But my limited humanistic mind feels like cheating. I know this is a learning experience and my soul mate relationship I have is for my growth but I’m just confused and want to make sure I’m not losing my mind. A. I think that these two posts are going to help you tremendously with what you are currently experiencing with your soul mate and twin flame: Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness and Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness Continued You are right on with what you feel, that through loving soul mate relationships we heal from love that has expectations, limitations, conditions and move into the space of truly understanding what unconditional love is, and that is does not exclude anyone, nor does it create separation. When we look through the eyes of Spirit (our heart) instead of Ego (our mind), we see very clearly that we are not separated from each other, and that all the love we have shared in and are sharing in is also being shared with our twin flame and everyone else…all of that love just joins together into this huge energy of deep love, which is ever deepening and growing, truly limitless. Spirit understands that there is a natural flow and divine order to life and love,...

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Release the Idea of Competition
Apr21

Release the Idea of Competition

There is never any competition between you and another. The rainbow can’t be a rainbow without all of the colors and each color does not take away from your own color. If you feel there is competition, it is only in your mind creating separation, hence “separation mentality.” Release that perception and watch how everything shifts into a higher vibration of unconditional...

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Merging from Separation Mentality into Unity Consciousness Continued

You may want to read this post before this one since it is the first entry into this discussion: First part of Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness The path of reunion of twin flames is one of unconditional love, for yourself (knowing that your twin is within you and there isn’t any separation, even if you are physically not beside each other) and for your twin, hence the mirror effect. When you become enamored with the beauty and essence of you, it is enhanced when you meet up with your twin, increasing the love for both you and your twin. Vice versa: when you meet up with your twin, as you love your twin more, the love for yourself increases. It is important to be on the journey of connecting with that love inside you and developing the joy for being on your own in your life before physical reunion. Soul mates are an essential part of the journey leading up to twin flame reunion. I use the analogy of the ladder of love and that each rung on the ladder is a soul mate relationship, with the top being the twin flame. I believe you may have taken what I said here in the context of the “old” way of relationships and loving, which is YES, absolutely one of lust and being with another for whatever reason: sex, loneliness. So, we have soul mate relationships to prepare us for the twin flame, to help us to release egoic patterns of behavior, emotions, thoughts, and to grow deeper in the vibration of unconditional love. The higher we get up the ladder of love, the more intense our soul mate relationships become, and therefore the love shared has moved way beyond the ego, sharing love and intimacy on a higher level. Why would someone be with a soul mate and not with a twin flame? In order for twin flames to come together to serve the world in whatever specific mission the souls have intended, they need to choose each other on the soul level as well as the conscious level. There can be reasons why this would not happen…like I said above, the twin flame is the clearest mirror for you as who you are, so if you are not happy with what you consider your “weaknesses” and your “strengths,” then you can easily 1. run in fear from the relationship with your twin flame. 2. You or your twin flame may be consciously aware of your connection and your mission but the other may not. 3. It may not be the right time yet for your...

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