The Fairytale is Illusion
Mar07

The Fairytale is Illusion

The Fairytale of love ~ everything will be smooth in all moments, everyone will live happily ever after. The biggest illusion of all. What is real, true love? Unconditional, pure love, that will be there, stay there, with a heart willing to open continuously, embracing you, supporting you through the tears, (both happy and sad). The love that will guide you through the darkness and remind you of its never-ending presence at all times. Both shows Once Upon a Time in Wonderland and Once Upon a Time bring this up, again and again. The theme is always that there is some obstacle to be overcome so that happiness can be found, so that peace can be experienced, so that love can be basked in. Yet, drop the illusion that love isn’t here right now, that love has to be a certain way to be felt, experienced or enjoyed and there is your true love. It glides with you as you ride the waves in the ocean of love, which of course, you are not separate from. Recognize that ecstasy of love is right here, right now, for you. Remember that intensity of love is right in front of you. It is not something to attain, but everything to gain, through remembering, it is here,...

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The Way Home is Burning Inside of You
Jun04

The Way Home is Burning Inside of You

Q. The person who I believe is my soul mate, in real life doesn’t know me (I don’t think). I met them a long time ago (20-odd years) and have never forgotten about them. But over the past two years, for whatever reason, I can’t stop thinking about them, my brain filled with a life beyond my reality where we are together, coming together…. But I’m scared. It feels dangerous to desire so much through a hyper-reality than my actual reality. So what do I do? Is this a twin flame/soul mate, or just a over-worked imagination/wish/desire? How do you know? It’s driving me nuts! And how do I know if she knows me or not, or thinks of me if she does? A. Dangerous according to whose standards? And what is the danger? The possibility that EVERYTHING you have ever felt, that you have ever known from within about love can truly and completely become your actual reality? You know who your Beloved is, the one that matches you by feeling it in the deepest place within you, the reoccurring feelings and thoughts (as you express) that never go away, that keep coming back, for when you feel like that, it is destiny knocking at your door, like crumbs, asking you to pay attention, to notice. Feel into the spaces of where such thoughts and feelings are coming from… because the place I’m talking about is within, where you feel what you can’t deny. It may not make sense at first, but will bring you so profoundly within your own being, to question everything, literally EVERYTHING, you have thought, felt, believed about love and relationship. After the questioning, it will encourage you to let it all go, all of the rules you’ve learned about love, all of the roles you’ve experienced played within relationships, the proof you need before you express the love that you are, even the perception that you must get to know someone before you know you love them. At this time in history, in the genre of relationships, we are asked to shift from believing we get to know someone by spending time with them to remembering this from within and allowing it. We remember we know someone from within, not from without first. Think about it this way. If you were to walk a path and wanted to find your way home, you perhaps might leave yourself crumbs or clues along the way so you would remember which way pointed to home.  If you meet someone and you have feelings, visions that you can’t easily explain, that keep coming back years after the...

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Surrender to What Is to Receive It All
Feb23

Surrender to What Is to Receive It All

I AM feeling the NEED for surrendering in every moment along this journey of love. Surrendering allows for you to be open to embrace your dreams without any attachments or expectations. The more you focus on the when, how, if it’s going to happen, that your true love comes to you and that you can move forward in all ways to co-create with one another, the more you miss out on the beauty and awesomeness in this moment to strengthen that connection/love. Surrendering to the love that you are sharing with your true love IN the way you ARE sharing in it right now is powerful and allows for miracles to occur in your “reality” right now, your NOW moments. Your NOW moments happening as you are reading this are bringing you ever deeper in love with you and all that is, which affects us all. Smile, choose happiness right now, and let yourself receive the miracles present for you in every moment. So often, we find just about any reason why we can’t be here in this moment to embrace whatever relationships are in our experience. So often, we run away from the support, the growth, the healing present for us right now because we are focusing on what we wish to create. In doing this, we don’t know that what we wish to create IS being created right now…the more you choose love right now in every relationship, in every experience, in every moment you have with yourself, the more you bring love into what your heart is intending to manifest in your life. I encourage you, I’m nudging you, to choose love right now. Don’t keep yourself in the space of “waiting” for your miracles to happen. Instead, recognize that miracles that have occurred and that are continuously unfolding in your reality before you now. You are an amazing and beautiful light in this world…stay connected to your inner nudgings, bring your passion more deeply into the creations you are meant to offer to this world for we can all use more drops of love in the buckets of our hearts, individually and collectively. We are consistently breaking free from the chains of fear as it attempts to control our minds and therefore hinder our capacity to BE in love, to SEE in love, to ACT in love all of the time. Let the truth of love, as it is underneath everything, embrace you. Recognize that fear is only there to bring you deeper into love as you acknowledge that it is an aspect of love, and it desires to be loved, brought into the light,...

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Discover How to Bring Love Deeply into Your Life

I was joined by Natalia-Love Koteva, Author of The How to Love Manual. We shared on how to bring love deeply into every moment of your life, all of your relationships, your situations, your experiences. You will be immersed with the information on how you can move through the blockages that stop you from loving so that you can welcome in love all the time. Natalia has such a sweet way of encouraging you in the way that she uses her words throughout the book, as it is a pleasure to share in her sweet energy. Listen to internet radio with Be You To Fullest on Blog Talk...

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Why is it Taking So Long to Find my True Love?
May29

Why is it Taking So Long to Find my True Love?

Q. Why does it take us so long to find “the one?” A. It’s never taking too long to find the perfect one for you. The only way that it may seem that it is taking long, is 1. If you believe in separation – the truth is that you are never separated from your true love regardless of whether or not you are physically with each other 2. If you believe that you are just waiting – you are never just waiting…you are always growing ever deeper in love, becoming more who you are, connecting with your passions and bringing that into your life…it is the perfect amount of “time” before you meet – all that you are experiencing leading up to that reunion is perfect and getting you ready to receive your true love 3. If you are looking to the future or the past and not the moment – it is so important to be in the moment on the journey leading up to your perfect one because there is so much that is here for you right now to embrace, to learn from, to grow from, to heal from…and the moment provides you with signs to guide you along into the next moment along your journey. 4. Doubting whether or not you will ever find this person – in order to attract that energy and love into your life, you need to be vibrating with the frequency so that the love can recognize your light and move towards you 5. Looking at others in love and feeling jealousy – this connects with #1 because you may feel separated from that love and separated from your true love, when you are with each other in every moment as well as every relationship you share…feel that, and watch how powerful it is, how much deeper your love grows in your heart for your true love. Let go of the perception of it taking so long and searching to find the perfect one for that one will come to you when you are not searching…it will just happen...

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