Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion
Nov23

Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion

Q. So I’ve met my twin flame but I’m currently in a relationship. One which is very loving. I’m so pulled to be around my twin and we communicate regularly on the Internet sharing our experiences and life story. The reason we figured out we were twins is because of the many synchronicities we started to notice. One big one was our love for the number 11:11. he actually has a tattoo of it and I was planning on getting one. I added him as a friend on an 11:11 Facebook page to make friends of like minds. He messaged me a long message about his beliefs on what’s occurring on the planet and I felt super comfortable with his words automatically and a feeling of excitement came over me. As the synchronicitys continued and our spiritual paths and understanding were almost exact we both were wondering what was going on. This is around the time I was ready to get out of what I call my dark days of my ascension. I almost feel bad for having this intense love for someone else besides my boyfriends and the longing to b with my twin. And do some real work together. He understands my position and is supportive and comforting. I have grown alot since our connection. I’m learning unconditional love for all. But my limited humanistic mind feels like cheating. I know this is a learning experience and my soul mate relationship I have is for my growth but I’m just confused and want to make sure I’m not losing my mind. A. I think that these two posts are going to help you tremendously with what you are currently experiencing with your soul mate and twin flame: Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness and Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness Continued You are right on with what you feel, that through loving soul mate relationships we heal from love that has expectations, limitations, conditions and move into the space of truly understanding what unconditional love is, and that is does not exclude anyone, nor does it create separation. When we look through the eyes of Spirit (our heart) instead of Ego (our mind), we see very clearly that we are not separated from each other, and that all the love we have shared in and are sharing in is also being shared with our twin flame and everyone else…all of that love just joins together into this huge energy of deep love, which is ever deepening and growing, truly limitless. Spirit understands that there is a natural flow and divine order to life and love,...

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Twin Flame Union: Divine Timing
Oct19

Twin Flame Union: Divine Timing

Q. Divine timing is a big part of twin flame union, but if you have already met physically, does it mean 2012 is the reunion year? A. Yes, divine timing is a huge part of the twin flame union, and in realizing this, so much a part of the journey is about allowing yourself to fully be in the moment, to allow yourself to FEEL all of the emotions (energy in motion) that is so much within this journey. What I mean is to witness the guidance of the universe and feel the love surrounding you in absolutely EVERYTHING, all of the moments that you may have perceived were “dark” have given you insight that you are now bringing into your life mission and all of your relationships. All that you felt brought joy to your life you are called to be in the deepest space of gratitude for, which enables you to see the perfection in the circle of all that you have taken part in, all of your challenges have offered you opportunities to grow, to heal, to create, to BE more deeply who you are. Each of your relationships and the moments of your life have helped you to remember the truth of who you are so that you can express that truth of who you are right now and all the time. This twin flame journey is truly about constant surrender to the flow, to holding onto the love that is always present yet letting go of the need to explain or understand it all, to let go of the expectations that the mind can place on the time frame of full reunion (in all ways) so that you can truly get into the place of knowing that you have never been separated, that you are always connecting. Re-union means remembering that union (you and I as one) has always been the truth…in this, you are able to honor all of the steps along your journey, honoring you, honoring your twin (all of the choices and creations) which eventually brings you to the point of full immersion into your life purpose, individually and together. I don’t like to place any particular time frame to the full reunion in all ways with ones twin, because each of your souls have your own intentions for your creation and union in this lifetime. Feel inside you what resonates with your particular souls agreement: be open and know that you can and will receive this information if you are willing and ready. I can tell you that the message that I have received is that now, nearing the end...

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Merging from Separation Mentality into Unity Consciousness Continued

You may want to read this post before this one since it is the first entry into this discussion: First part of Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness The path of reunion of twin flames is one of unconditional love, for yourself (knowing that your twin is within you and there isn’t any separation, even if you are physically not beside each other) and for your twin, hence the mirror effect. When you become enamored with the beauty and essence of you, it is enhanced when you meet up with your twin, increasing the love for both you and your twin. Vice versa: when you meet up with your twin, as you love your twin more, the love for yourself increases. It is important to be on the journey of connecting with that love inside you and developing the joy for being on your own in your life before physical reunion. Soul mates are an essential part of the journey leading up to twin flame reunion. I use the analogy of the ladder of love and that each rung on the ladder is a soul mate relationship, with the top being the twin flame. I believe you may have taken what I said here in the context of the “old” way of relationships and loving, which is YES, absolutely one of lust and being with another for whatever reason: sex, loneliness. So, we have soul mate relationships to prepare us for the twin flame, to help us to release egoic patterns of behavior, emotions, thoughts, and to grow deeper in the vibration of unconditional love. The higher we get up the ladder of love, the more intense our soul mate relationships become, and therefore the love shared has moved way beyond the ego, sharing love and intimacy on a higher level. Why would someone be with a soul mate and not with a twin flame? In order for twin flames to come together to serve the world in whatever specific mission the souls have intended, they need to choose each other on the soul level as well as the conscious level. There can be reasons why this would not happen…like I said above, the twin flame is the clearest mirror for you as who you are, so if you are not happy with what you consider your “weaknesses” and your “strengths,” then you can easily 1. run in fear from the relationship with your twin flame. 2. You or your twin flame may be consciously aware of your connection and your mission but the other may not. 3. It may not be the right time yet for your...

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Merging from Separation Mentality Into Union Consciousness
Mar04

Merging from Separation Mentality Into Union Consciousness

It is time for me to bring more awareness to the concept of releasing separation so that we can fully know and experience union in all ways, always, in each moment, in each relationship. Have you heard that in order for you to attract the ideal mate (your soul mate, your twin flame) to you, you need to be single, physically not in relationship with another person? Well, I am here to tell you that this is not so. It is absolutely ok, and very healthy for you to be in relationship with a soul mate and call to you in physical form another higher soul mate or your twin flame. Let me explain this a little bit. In order for a twin flame relationship to exist, and to remain for the long term, there needs to be the highest vibration of unconditional love for yourself, for your twin, and for anyone else that is involved. SO, if you or your twin is in physical relationship with another, and you come in contact with them, know that there is a process for this transition to occur in order for you both to be in relationship with one another. In order for twin flames to come together, there has to be such deep, unconditional love. There cannot exist jealousy, anger, envy, bitterness. Know that you are never separated from your twin. If you are not in physical relationship right now, please know that you are always connecting and communicating through your heart, your soul, your spirit, in dreams, through your thoughts and emotions. As with any transition, there are layers of growth and easing into the next step, which is necessary for the next steps to completely unfold. The only way for your twin flame to leave another person that they are in relationship with to merge with you is that there is unconditional love and understanding from you toward your twin, toward the person that your twin is in relationship with. See how this does not take away the love but adds to the love between everyone, creating a circle of increasing the love vibration, as this is what twin flame love is meant to do. Everyone is affected by the high frequency of energy that this love combination creates. Separation mentality creates the belief that in order for someone to be in union with us, there needs to be a separation from another that they are sharing love and intimacy with. Union consciousness understands that union is always present (we are all connected) and therefore knows that there is a process of transition which occurs step by step,...

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