Do You Choose Unconditional Love?
Nov08

Do You Choose Unconditional Love?

Listen to my interview with Marcome here: Discover the New Age Sound of Marcome by Marcome Do you choose unconditional love? My motto is “You are what you think so be aware of what feeds your brain on a daily basis”. I used to think my happiness and needs depended on external realities such as being married so I’ve put a huge burden on my first husband’s shoulders. Most of my happiness expectations were coming from my married life, being perfect as a mom, friend, daughter, my success through my profession etc. After a divorce and other roadblocks, I was suffering; my life was apparently falling apart… Nature and self help books were not enough to cure my inner self anymore. I started getting help from a counselor who brought me to realize that happiness is a state of being; it’s a decision to become responsible to take care of your needs…all of them! You don’t rely on external conditions anymore to provide yourself with care, love, food etc. Unfortunately, we’re shown the opposite most of the time in movies and on television series where people are perfect, rich, fusional, always have make up even when they get out of bed in the morning! I call it the Snow White syndrome. The consumerism preaches, “You are what you possess, your status in society, your job, your body, your beauty!” Of course, one has to acknowledge that the responsibility is on his/ her lap. If I keep choosing to feed my brain with those values (She/He should take care of me, I’ll be happy when I have this, do this, become that), I feel I’m condemned to more suffering. If I put the fulfilling of my needs in external hands, it’s a kind of emotional slavery. With the help of books and some counseling, I reviewed all of my beliefs and I still do today every step of the way! To give you examples: “I’m fat, I should be perfect, My father should be this, my boss should do that, I’m stupid, I’m never good enough, Why is this happening to me, my spouse should know and so on…” I realized I had been thinking in a kind of binary mode, it’s either white or black, no grays… no room for rational thinking, objectivity. I had never figured out till that point that I was unaware of most of my conceptions about so many things. The sole permanent thing in life is the energy that keeps us alive, not the events of life. I often say, ‘you don’t have all the choices about what life brings you, but you have...

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Discover the New Age Sound of Marcome

It was such a pleasure for me to have Marcome, a New Age musician and singer from Quebec, Canada joining me on this show. You are going to hear some of her music as the notes and sounds will carry you away to wherever you choose to go, such soul in her sound and her voice. In addition to her music, we will shared on her journey leading up to her creations as well as her spiritual path, which is just as important and rewarding for her. If you would like to know more and hear some samples of Marcome’s music, please visit her website at Marcome. Listen to internet radio with Be You To Fullest on Blog Talk...

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