Communication Really is the Answer

Communication is one of the most important things in any relationship: friendship, romantic, among family, etc, yet it is one thing that we tend to let go. There are many reasons why we may not decide to go ahead and talk to someone about something that may be bothering us. Perhaps we are afraid of what they are going to say or think about what we feel, what we bring up. Perhaps we don’t want to deal with confrontation and would rather walk away or ignore it. However, what we don’t realize is that the confrontation begins with self ~ the confrontation has already begun within ourselves when we keep things inside. There is a constant tug of war inside, over and over again we run through our mind what was said or not said, done or not done, etc between us and this other party. When all we have to do is talk with the person so that we can begin to attempt to resolve it. You cannot know where someone else is coming from and that person won’t know where you are coming from if you don’t talk about it. If you don’t talk about something that is bothering you, then it will cause resentment and you will start to make a lot of assumptions about how the other person feels or why she did what she did. These things are merely assumptions, they are not true. You are making an opinion from what you know and what you have experienced of life and people. Why do that? Why not just let these frustrations go by starting a conversation with someone you may be troubling with? Watch how the whole entire situation changes and your emotions calm down. When you allow someone to be themselves and you allow yourself to be as you are, then miracles happen, healing occurs and relationships are strengthened. Why not make it a point today to talk to someone that you may have had a misunderstanding with? Get your feelings and thoughts into the open and let the other person do the same. Then, come and share your experience. I’d love to hear about it...

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Emergence

I feel your presence as the wind tickles my skin, reminds me of the intimacy we shared through our dreams, in past lifetimes, and before we knew of human flesh The soft reminiscence of you as your essence moved through me, into me, and merged within me I hear your voice in the birds chirping, as they welcome me into a new day, a day closer to the true manifestation of being with you I see your smile on the faces of the young innocent children playing outside, as they bask in the joy of living freely that sweet intoxicating energy holds me translucent and calm I feel myself within you when I am connecting to you, through you and beside you, as a part of you. We breathe the intricacies of life as our souls merge together to form a unity of aliveness, We are formed and created anew as we continuously evolve together, yet apart The day is emerging my love, Soon, the day is emerging, As it has already emerged, That we are now, together One being of various parts that sees, feels and loves so profoundly I hear your laughter in the raindrops that keep my company this evening A smile easily forms upon my face as I am found The essence of you is the essence of me This truth strengthens me in your physical absence And sustains me at the moments when all I want to do is embrace you, or talk to you or laugh with you We are formed and created anew as we continuously evolve together, yet apart The day is emerging my love, Soon, the day is emerging, As it has already emerged That we are now,...

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Discussion Posts

This is the beginning of many posts regarding topics that are within my book, You Find Your Soul Mate When You Let Go of Searching. I’d love to get your feedback as you are reading the book. Please feel free to post any questions you may have, any comments you would like to express, any emotions you may experience, etc. As you start leaving some comments on here, I will reply and add posts as we go along. This will be a special place where we will all be able to connect with each other and share our experiences together…remember, you are never alone 😉 All my love,...

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