Healing Separation to Move into Union in Relationships
Feb29

Healing Separation to Move into Union in Relationships

For many years in our relationships, we have unconsciously been acting in separation, feeling that we are separate from one another, believing that we need separation in order to be together. It is now the time for us to become fully aware of what has been going on so that we can heal all of the emotions, actions, beliefs, perceptions of separation, which naturally brings us into a deeper vibration to welcome in and give out unconditional, limitless love. For so long, men and women have been weary of commitment because of the false associations that have gone along with it. In order to be with someone, to commit to spending your life with another, you have to give up your freedom, to give up your relationship with yourself and all the excitement that goes along with it. This would not be attractive to just about anyone and no wonder there has been so much conflict throughout the years. So what have we done? We reached outside of self for fulfillment and happiness, attaching to our partner, hoping that we can achieve the passion for being alive within this other. Honestly, your happiness truly comes from within you. You are meant to have the freedom to make your own choices, to follow your own path, to connect with your passion as you continuously bring it forth in your life. Somehow, we have been living the opposite in our relationships. Releasing separation within relationships is moving into the space of knowing that you can and do have the freedom to make your own choices, you can and should follow your own path as well as connect with what makes you feel alive on your own, AND that you can do all of this WITH a partner. Your partner as well has the freedom to do the same while also being with you. We’ve been following a path towards union based in separation…separation cannot lead to union, unless we bring our conscious awareness to the emotions, beliefs, actions we have been playing out so that we can willingly release them to be in union. We are always in union, meaning that it is our natural state. We are all connected and it is only our perception within the mind that creates the illusion that we are separate. Therefore, nothing really has to be “transformed,” just the illusions fall away to reveal the truth. I like to use the analogy of the number 11 to represent how a healthy relationship works. 11 is 1 and 1 which come together to create 11. Each person needs to develop their 1 (meaning their own...

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