Severing a Connection with Your Twin Flame
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Q. Hi – I have made my twin very mad, thinks I am crazy – done some not
nice things out of ego. I worked with someone who said they could
sever our contract, etc on this earth. Then had a dream about my
twin. Is the contracts null now? Help!
A. I can’t speak for the person that you worked with on severing your contract with your twin flame. However, I can say that I do not believe that you can “sever the ties” with your twin flame because that would be like cutting off a piece of yourself. Your twin flame is so much engrained into the energetic makeup of who you are. As you go through your experiences, your emotions, your growth, these vibrations are being sent to your twin flame as well and vice versa. On a soul level, we all desire to merge with the other essence of our selves, hence the desire to be in relationship and reunite with our twin. Our souls would like nothing more than to be together in all ways, the spiritual and physical. But when we incarnated on Earth, we were given free will.
Free will allows us the chance to consciously choose our reunion with our twin. In order for us to do that, we do have other relationships and experiences in our life to give us many opportunities of growth, to move away from the ego and the mind to the space of true unconditional love, for this is the only way that twin flames can come together physically and stay together. If you are feeling that this is not the case for you and your twin right now, you can communicate with him through your dreams, through your thoughts, your emotions, in meditation or just like you would talk to a friend. What you send he will receive on whatever level he is ready to receive it. You cannot sever the connection with your twin flame as it is not possible, however you can express how you feel and what you are choosing right now in this moment. The soul of your twin flame loves you SO much that whatever you choose, the soul knows that it is out of love. We all have our own process of growth and no choice is ever right or wrong, it just is.
Have faith that you will come together in all ways at the perfect time…but know that the connection can shift and change, that you can continue to be in the moment living your life, even sharing love with another in deep close relationship…and that all of the steps you choose to take are perfect for your growth and your journey. You don’t need to feel that you need to separate completely in order to do this. Unconditional love would never create separation like that, but it can choose to move direction and focus for the benefit of your own well being right now.
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Gabriella, do you have any idea, when a soul gets “connected” to the body? Is it at birthtime or is it at fetus time or even earlier?
I know that my twin had a hard time getting born at all.
Since I was already “on board”, I might´ve helped her by sending positive vibrations to her without knowing. And she resent these vibrations “to the situation she was in” to help herself reaching daylight…
Hmm.
Just some thoughts…
Ingo,
The exact time that the soul gets connected to the body varies from soul to soul, depending on what the soul chooses to “experience” and grow from in this particular lifetime. There is not one exact time that fits for each one. In that way, it can’t be generalized. I’m not sure what you mean by having a hard time getting born, however, perhaps her soul was attached to the body through that hard time for learning, for growth and healing. What can be considered hard to the human eyes can be thought to be “fun” through the eyes of spirit because of the opportunities it presents. 😉
I don’t know if this will be of any help, but I remember listening to one of Lee Carroll’s Kryon chanelling sessions in which he states that the soul connects to the body during birth, while in the birth canal. I wonder what the source of your twin’s resentment really is, because no one can force a soul to do something that hasn’t been agreed to…you two obviously had agreed to incarnate (however difficult) or it would not have happened. I think Gabriella always has very sage advice. And I hope I am not overstepping any web etiquette here, but one other site that I have found helpful in uncovering and clearing blockages in myself and my twin is http://www.inner-speak.net/
Sidney,
I completely agree, that no one can force a soul to do something that hasn’t been agreed to. There is a soul choice before physical birth and full incarnation…and then there is free will also when the soul is within the body, that however is never taken away. Free will can affect and change what has been agreed upon by the soul beforehand…not sure as to what the details were with Ingo’s twin, and we may never fully know as her soul would be the one to know all of her agreements, etc. I also agree with you Sidney that if there was a change that free will created during the process of birth, then both of them would not be here now. Don’t worry about overstepping anything with supplying us all with the additional link 😉 I feel that we all have our unique colors to add to the whole rainbow and that sharing others insights by no means takes away from anyone else. Love to you!
Hi Gabriella, I am going through the same emotions as person above , my heart is breaking, I feel everything I do is pushing him further and he is about to marry someone else, he denies us and thinks I am mad, I feel like I am going crazy, but hearing other people going through same lets me know I am sane. Every reading I have tells me he will return soon??????
Im totally lost here? Help, wish I could comfort others by saying I am going through same at moment , but keep hoping and loving him, nothing else to do!!!
Thanks
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My twin flame also denies me because I am not in his social class, and can get better looking then myself. I am not sure we are meant for this lifetime. we were never even friends-he was just a crush when I was too young to know it wasn’t going away.I think this is the lifetime where I am getting ready to ascend–I am the half of the twin who has the desire and I think I have this desire as a function to keep us in some kinda contact with each other. I think he knows something weird is going on within himself(regarding me) but I don’t think it’s the right time, or maybe even not the right lifetime. But we are getting close because my desire is driving me and I know who and what he is. I am watching him keeping track of what is going on in his life the best I can stand knowing about stuff It’s a comfort knowing he’s my twin flame and I possess this desire for some kind of utility. But I really think I am getting ready to ascend because I am waking up to so many things that most don’t…but I do have a lot of growth ahead of me yet.
There has to be a way, twin flames are rare…so maybe the method to sever the ties has been lost in history somewhere. I’d give almost anything to be separated from my twin. There just HAS to be a way. The pain you feel is unimaginable and theres no need for it. At times it is so great you just want to die. If its unconditional love than how come it feels like a curse. If I’d have to give an arm or a leg, I would. I would even give up the energy and everything else that deals with it,
@Kat I AM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU! I am so sick of this douchebag and the useless pull on my life. I’ve actually been able to block his energy by putting up energy blocks, asking my guides for help…whom at first wouldn’t assist because they aren’t permitted to interfere with perfect or true love…but the scorpio nature…or rather the stalker in my twin has totally perverted the connection. Upon first spiritually reaching out to him we slept (literally) hugged up and I happened to awaken in the middle of the night to see that the white circle that I was constantly seeing had become a firey blue with a cross in the middle and was shocked and blinked and it had gone away. BUT THE CLARITY of it was insane. I’ve been dealing with this db for 4 years and the circle has blurred out or has become so fuzzy because we are so off balance. He’s trying to control me but doesn’t wanna come forward but doesn’t want me to be with anyone else…so I’m basically followed so as to keep an eye on me. He’s younger than I by 4 years and I am a completely grounded taurus…so we’re also astrological polar opposites….he’s just ughhh…he knows what this is…but plays in spirit, goes to readers to try and “do work” on me…blames me for not cooperating…its surreal..so I KNOW we’re not ready. I’d rather him go away. I regret finding him and recognizing him…its pure hell to be in pain that you’re rejected by the one person whom you love more than anything. Praying to God helps tremendously…as it helps me to go into a meditative state. Even when he’s in the same state that I’m in and tries to connect I pray and the circle goes away. He tries the white strings to communicate in thought and I block him. Its like he’s stuck in a pattern/loop of repeating himself because things worked in the past. I honestly regret finding him. I deserve better than his sorry ass….divine connction…pfftt (-_-).
It is a curse or a blessing? Or it is just a window that God has opened to our eyes to see the inmesity of the Universe of love that can possible exist. How to say no, to this opportunity even if it causing so my pain to our 3D mind and body?
Oh, Joana, how beautiful! Thank you so much for this answer! 🙂
Oh, you really are the pen of God for me sometimes as I have been looking for the answer to this question for 3 years now … and I haven’t been able to make my twinflame see it truly is a blessing , at least not in times she thinks it’s a curse. I can say whatever I want and cannot penetrate this wall of curse when it has come for her.
But for me it is so wonderful to have a new picture … a window … how beautiful, dearest Joana!
Yes, it is a window that has opened for us to see and feel all the LOVE the Universe gives to us and the world and that LOVE wants to fill the whole world to make it NEW. It wants to flow through us and into the world, making us happy, us and our twins and all of us.
I believe a lot of the pain comes from (a) these inner wounds that still need to be healed ~ and everyone of us has them of course and (b) a lot of pain can also come from the fight in ourselves against this love, against this twinflame relationship and all it changes for our lives, and then it even does so without quick 3D results.
But fighting doesn’t make it any better.
What makes it better is acknowledging that we don’t know everything and that there are things so much bigger than us in this world and twinflame love and being one of the few people who are aware of it is certainly one of the gifts we simply cannot return to God, no matter how hard we try.
It is far better to look for the blessing in all of this, as it is truly there, and very very big.
I feel that whenever I am able to do this (inspite of the non-3D), I feel so much better at once.
Waves of love and light to everybody and their twins.
It is my fault I met him, I should have known better than to ask to meet my other half. Not taking to them of all people hurts and cuts so deeply. The pain you feel in your heart hurts on so many levels. Even if I could talk to them that connection will cause more harm than good. Truly twin flames are a curse.
I asked for my other half, as well. I had no notion of twin flames at the time. Even had I known I would experience the emotional turmoil that has been part of this journey, I would still have taken a chance in order to bring this love into my life. I think the whole experience is about awakening/embodied ascension. It may not be the easiest path to have chosen, but I know I have chosen this for myself: to experience ascension through twin flame love.
Kat,
i am sending you a blessing from God himself to give you light and blessings.
Dear Sidney,
yes 🙂 I would also have chosen the twinflame love to enter my life ~ even if I had known about this emotional pain it also brings before. Also for me, the pains have been incredible and these twinflame years have as well been the most painful in all my life, but at the same time they have been the deepest blessing I have ever been given and the fruits of this blessing are to be seen all over my life.
Twinflame love truly is a blessing way beyond imaginable blessings.
Waves of love and light to you and everybody
Dear Delphina: Thanks to you. So many times you just write things that answer my questions too, unbelievable! It seems that angels are guiding you to write, so much wisdom are in your words.
There is another book title: Angel numbers 101 by Doreen Virtue.
I wish, I coulf find a course on angels like you. I have many books on angels, and I have a collection of angel figurines. I like to give to friends and family angel figurines as presents too. Many times I prefer no to let know people that I’m a very spiritual person. My soulmate is not so spiritual, he believe on past lives because he can remember some. But if I start talking with him about TFs, I know he will not understand the concept. I FEEL that my TF is spiritual, don’t ask me why I know this, I just feel it.
Blessing for you and everybody
Dearest Joana … same with me 😉
People don’t know me as a spiritual person … and I am often even hiding my angel figurines … what a pity! I am trying to spread Delphina’s wings and to let my light shine a bit more, but it is difficult when people are afraid of spirituality so much.
My husband is also spiritual (thank God 🙂 ) but he also doesn’t completely understand the concept of twinflames. But I always think: how could he? If anybody had told me four years ago what I would be feeling like today, I would have thought they had gone completely mad. I honestly think no one can fully grasp it all who hasn’t experienced it himself/herself.
This is why I am so grateful for places like this blog where people meet who *know*. 🙂 And it helped me during the last months to come to understand that I am not alone with all my feelings and those twists and turns of twinflame life. This alone helps a great deal as well I think. Because we can realize we are in fact not gone out to lunch, but we are just all on this twinflame journey ~ this journey of so many deepest unexpected blessings and of these incredibly painful experiences as well. It is so good to understand this that it is normal what we are experiencing and feeling. 🙂
Today I have found a beautiful angel of light on the internet by an artist painting angels who posts an angel nearly every day with a messsage and this angel of light for this week is sending us the message to feel our inner light and to trust it and let it shine. It is the light of our soul and it wants to shine and let the world know that LOVE is alive and can be seen in every human being.
Waves of love and light to everybody
I have met my twin flame! Probably like all twins, we have experienced unbelievable things and would like to talk with others who share in this journey.
If you are interested in meeting over coffee, lunch, dinner, etc., please let us know.
Cloe
Location: Seattle/SODO
Email: beccaneer@aol.com
It was getting better, now it plain hurts that I care so much. They are a good person from the heart and I love them dearly. He hasn’t ever been mean to me in anyway. The reason I want to sever the bond? I know it’s crazy that I want to, apparently we are transcended twins without a doubt. I just can’t take it anymore! A part of me from the soul died recently and its not a terrible physical pain. The best I can describe it is the light inside of you starts hurting and your heart cracks in a sense. Yet it is has been a blessing. Can someone help me figure out what’s going on? Thanks
Dear Kat, I wish I could help you, but I’m afraid I feel like you, this twin flame journey-ride has un-explained turns that fill my heart with happiness like precisely last night, I dreamed with my TF, and I this morning I woke up so happy.
Dear Delphina, definitely only the person who is experiencing this TF love can understand the feelings, the up and downs, ect. of this jouney. I watched the movie: “Waiting for ever” There is nothing surprise for me in this movie, I completely understand the message on it, and I believe who wrote the screenplay knows about the TF love.
I found three more books with the 101 on them,
101 Adorable breeds dogs
Grow your money
101 easy tips to plan, save, and invest.
101 Ways to improve your mind.
Merry Christmas and Blessing to all of you
Dear Joana,
amazon keeps suggesting the movie “waiting for forever” to me … on Christmas Eve again … oh, it is about twinflame love! … o.k., now I’ll order it ! 😉
More 101 … I am not surprised …. the journey is going on … with all its ups and downs … but the Christmas message is that the Christmas love and light will win in the end ! 🙂
Lots of love to you and all
Dear Delphina, the un-expected happen to me; I was checking my hometown online newspaper and there it was the 101 number again in a article. The police caught a woman with 101 dosis of drug selling illegaly on the street. Jesus! I just wrote a short comentary about this incident on it, on how poverty and desparation lead some people to commit such crimes. This lady did not look drug-adict or a bad person, I really feel sorry for her.
I really enjoyed to watch this movie, I already watched it two times. Maybe that is the secret of this TF love, the good love don’t ask for anything because this TF love give the opportunity to experience and feel what love is about it.
Happy Holidays to you and everybody
So I tryed to have another dream with my TF. Last time I had one where he called me, I answered and he kept saying the craziest things. I could even see him smiling/grinning in my minds eye, it was such a happy, light dream. But that was a dream and he hasn’t called me ever. Im not even sure if he has my number. Anyways last night I dreamt he was around, and he was watching me. Not only that he was whispering things in people’s ears about me. I couldn’t tell if it was bad or good. Just thought id share.
My TF’s ego flared today, he completely flipped. I hate that I love him, how do I know that he loves me too? I felt such anger in the energy coming from my heart chakra and the intensity hurt. I do wonder if a Twin Flame can feel the other Twin’s emotions?
I apologize for being seemly annoying and pessimistic about twin flames. I suppose it’s because he is so stubborn, frustrating and the complete opposite of me. Everything happens for a reason right? Yet I am glad for this, it has opened my eyes to so much truth and beauty in the world. You all are amazing, every person is so special. I have not ever felt so much joy and love. I wish everyone else could experience it, life would be much better. Happy 2013 Everyone!
Dear Kat, you are not, I have those moments too. The agony and the frustration I feel with the physical separation from my TF makes me have those moments also. And them the calm arrive to my soul and I feel him so close to me whispiring on my ear: “I love you” then everything become bright and I feel the energy again in my whole body.
I think everybody here listen and support one another, I feel this way; so don’t feel bad if one day you want to write how you feel in the moment. I think it is good to get it out of your self. We are human beings and we are having those moments of frustration.
Blessings to everybody
NOTE: In some site in the internet, there are “Stories of twin flames” Sometimes I read them and it has helping me a lot to understand my self and this TF journey.
Dear Kat, I also feel it’s just human and all of us experience these moments. We all have bad moments and then again we have wonderful moments and we know deep down that this journey is worth all the trouble it also produces. Everyone of us knows, otherwise we wouldn’t be here ;-).
Dear Joana, Stories of twin flames …. sounds very good …. my google didn’t lead me to them though … can you name the site maybe? Might be very interesting for all of us. *warm smiles*
Wishing you and everyone here a new year filled with joy and miracles on our twin flame journey,
Delphina
Dear Delphina: The site is “Collapsing Duality/twin flames” It is wonderful to read the stories of twin flames couples. I feel that we are sharing the same experiences through this journey. It has been refreshing to read about the same happines and troubles twin flames are going through too as we are.
Blessings to everybody
Dear Joana, thank you very much! Collapsing duality sounds very good! 🙂 Sounds directly like what Gabriella always says ! 🙂
I also think it is so beautiful to read twinflame stories and see and feel we are not alone on this journey! It helps tremendously !
Thank you very much and a beautiful day to you and everybody filled with love and light and angels
Hi! Talking about my soulmate, I LOVE him as my son dearly; these are different loves. To explain them to me I put them in levels without putting them one on the top of the other. But it is just that my love for my TF is like the sun, I don’t know if can explain it correctly. The love, attraction, passion I FEEL for my TF is beyond everything. Before meeting my TF I thougt the love that I feel for my soulmate was everything. Then the door was open and I was introduced to a kind of love that illuminted all my perception and understanding about love, it is so much close to God. So being with a soulmate never will be like being with my TF, but if God send a soulmate like a companion? I see it like this, I know my soulmate in many way take care of me, and I take care of him; and we have a plan in common to care for our son. I just writing about my situation eventhough is all complex to me at this moment.
Blessings to everybody.
I think I may have possibly severed it, or I’m blocking the connection some how. Me and him had an argument in December. We were messaging. He kept denying everything I said and I ended up saying. That we should stay out of each others lives and not communicate in any way at all. He has obviously followed through with it. I thought its be easy, but even though we never really talked and were only classmates last school year. Almost every night since, I do not think about him or anything and I have dreams of him. And I’m starting to miss him, I hate that I care so much. He always wants a logical or scientific answer, so I can’t tell him. I just hope he doesn’t care and that I didn’t hurt him. Why of all people did he have to my Twin Flame? Anyways, Light and Love to you.
We are a twin flame couple trying to make sense of it all!!! We are looking to find another twin flame couple that share in this journey and have experienced all the beautiful, painful, magical and confusing emotions that come along with finding your twin flame. We simply want to hear your story and share ours with you and hopefully walk away with a better understanding of how to deal with all of the intense emotions that sometimes makes us feel CRAZY.
If you and your twin flame live in the Seattle area and are interested in meeting over coffee, lunch, dinner, etc., please let us know – we would truly like to know there are others out there like us.
email me at beccaneer@aol.com
Cloe & AJ
Out of honesty I wasn’t going to post anything for a very long time. However, I’m wondering if I’m going crazy or is it a normal twin flame experience? I used to frequently have heart pain. I thought it was heart burn at first or something else. It feels like a intense tugging as though your heart is trying to burst out of your chest. And no I’m not exaggerating, believe me I wish I am. The heart pain went away, and was gone for a long time. All of a sudden it’s back, stronger than ever and I’m certain it has to do with my twin flame. It returned today and its been confirmed today also,he thinks I hate him, I dont. I hate that I love him and I dont understand why. I never had any heart pains till after I met him. Also sometimes it feels as though there’s a cord connected to my stomach and energy is being blocked. I probably sound insane, but I just want to know if anyone knows what im talking about.
Kat, I have experienced the heart pain you are talking about. Mostly it was in the first year after meeting my twin flame. It did return earlier this week and it is difficult to say why, but I have had some extra anxiety about my TF this week. So, I too had the pain go away for a long time and come back. I can’t remember experiencing anything related to the stomach, just the usual butterflies when I first see him. See if pressing your right hand across the middle of your chest, with fingertips pressing where it hurts works, because it works for me. To answer your question, you are not going crazy. Weird things happen with TFs
Dear Kat: I felt that chest pain too when I was ceirtain I was going to be close to my TF. I also felt short at breath, I was shacking, my legs went weak, this happen everytime I was about to be close to him. ALL my body react to this energy. I went to my doctor because I really thought I was getting sick. My doctor made all the tests on me and everything came ok. So, I could not explained why I was feeling so sick. The days I was not supposed to meet him I was fine, I mean my body did not have this reaction. I felt MY stomach a mess too. So I understand you. I also thought I was getting crazy, and now with all the telephatic communication, I’m experiencing, I think I’m crazy too. Now, I believe my TF had these reactions too. I could see how nervous he was when I was around. Did you watch the movie “waiting for ever?” I mention this because the youngman in this movie could not talk to the girl he was inlove, but follow her all the time. In one scene of the movie he is behind a tree looking her and then he sit without of breath, it seems like his legs could not hold him up. This happen to me, so I think the person who wrote the screen play of this movie knows about The TF love. I HAVE not seen my TF for almost 4 months now, but going to the same places where I used to see him make me feel those reactions. But when I visualized him, I can be the most confortable and happy and I don’t have those reaction. Then I would like to know if more people has the same experience like you and I. What is going on with our physical body when we are close to our TF.
Blessings to you and everybody.
Dear Kat, Joana
I have also experienced this…but i noticed that i have heart palpitations when i feel anxiety related to my TF, where my mind interact with all kind of assumptions or it is just scared of some situation that din`t even happen. This is pretty much normal reaction on that kind of thinking but in this case is very strong and hard to control. I had situations when i knew that i`m going to meet him, talk to him and be in the same room with him and i prepared myself, then i could control my emotions, but that is only because i don`t know what he is thinking about all this and because i am aware more then him and know what is happening. I remember when we were talking 2 years ago, when we met and we started to talk about our lives, about us, about all this feelings that are very intimate and deep inside of us, all this feelings of discomforte just faded away.
Our body just has normal reaction to our feelings. Physical always follow the emotional. We have to ask ourselves what cause this emotions in us? Sometimes it is just our mind. Our TFs caused in us harmful of reactions, most of them our mind,ego didn`t like it and he got this information that is something to be afraid of and has this pressumption to protect himself. But like Joanna said, when we remember the love between us and that all is happening beacuse of some reason, when we move our consciousness from the mind to the heart it all stopes. So pretty much in the most cases our mind interfere and our body just signalize us what is happening in us and want us to become aware of that to correct it. When we met i was constantly nerovous and i told him that, he was so realxed with me, but i knew that something big is happening and my feared mind had this reactions on him and you also have a lot of expecations that you are not even aware of.
This is just my observations, from my experience. TF relationship is not that mystical us we think it is, we are humans, we act like humans with our TFs too, just the energy between us is very powerful and it is more intense, but we have to use our consciousness mind to observe what is happening. We exchange energy with all people around us and have a lot of emotional reactions on these energies, some are more intense some our not, depends how much we see ourselves in someone and our TFs are perfect mirror for us. This realtionship teach us to become observers, to not take everything so personally with our TFs and everything in life, it all has a reason we are just not aware of it, but if we observe witout attachment maybe we will see a bigger picture.
I hope this helped a little in any way. Much blessings to all of you and much love!
Thanks Sunshine, your point of view helps me a lot. It is always great to read your posts here on this site,
Waves of love to you and your TF.
Thank you all so much! Yes I will admit that I will get very nervous, blush and feel butterflies when I see him. At times later on your energy will feel drained or the opposite. Hearing his voice is as familiar as a note in a song and I will stop moving, cant hear or aknowledge anything till I snap out of it. Talk about brainwash. After I’m aware again, I can’t remember his voice and I still don’t. I have to restrain from running everytime he is near, it still scares me. I also feel that sensation thats inexplainable, telling me i’ll see him that day. I saw him today… I was carrying a bag of groceries out of the store with my family. For what felt like 2 seconds I saw him in the other store when I glanced. He had a shocked expression on his face. Sometimes I’ll have a thought that isnt mine, ive had proof that it wasnt me. One thing ive had that I just cant explain it was either a dream, vision or thought. I know it happened and I know physically I wasnt there even though its so real! He was standing there with a few friends in a part of a hallway at school. I saw from my own perspective as though I was there. Yet no one saw me oddly enough. Can not remember what exactly he was saying to himself, basically wondering about me… and his friends just grinned. Freakiest thing happened just about an hour ago. I was focusing on my eyes in the mirror, it calms me. I saw my face especially my eyes change in appearance. Then all of a sudden I saw oh-so familiar dark amber eyes staring back at me. My eyes are a odd blueish-green with yellow…no joke. I jumped away from the mirror, it was my twin flames eyes! I will definitely have to watch that movie now. Oh! I found something very interesting about the connection. I can’t remember the website, the recognition of the two on a soul level is so intense that it causes it to seem as though time stops and only you and them exist. Everything disappears because the intensity is so powerful that the physical body cant handle it. Another thing, apparently the guy recognizes the twin first. There’s a whole connection involving the solar plexus, pineal gland and heart chakra, as well as the soul. Good to know that we can share our experiences. I don’t usually say this, but much love to ALL of you!
Thanks for sharing Kat, I sometimes like to stare on the mirror looking at my eyes, for I could see my TF has the same eyes’ shape as mine. I don’t know what is this, but many times just looking at me at my eyes I feel I’m looking him. It is so intesting the information you are sharing. When I was around my TF it seemed that only he and I were there, and it was very difficult to keep 100% of my attention on whath the professor was teaching during the class. I still can remember my TF’s voice perfectly, yes for me too, his voice sound like music notes in my brain.
Blessings to you and everybody
It`s like they say “Eyes are the windows of the soul” and we know that this is really true 🙂 I remember that i couldn`t watch at the beginning into my TFs eyes, nor other people eyes for too long, i always got scared, i felt like i could see what is inside of them, but the truth was i saw myself in others eyes too…finally when i really started loving myself, be curious about my own soul and stop being insecure, beacuse we are all uniqe expression of God, i saw others like that too it. The same is with our TFs, the more we learn through other people more we know about ourselves therefore our TFs too, it is like preparing ourselves for them by discovering our own soul.
Dear Joana it is always good to hear you too 🙂 Much love to you and everybody!
I finally watched Waiting For Forever today and I can’t remember any movie where I actually cried. And of course I thought of my Twin Flame. Well really, when is he NOT on my mind haha. Something crazy has been going on lately. Besides the heart palpitations coming back well… Let me just tell the story. I haven’t seen him anymore, well very few but hardly ever now. My friend won’t tell me what’s going on she simply grins. She and him are like brother and sister. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen him somewhere once or twice but I’m not sure. A week or two ago, I was trying to relax myself before going to sleep. I felt vibrations starting in one of my toes and then it worked itself up to about the center of my body. I felt a presence, there was no one there and it felt like ‘his.’ His presence is very warm, as though your face is near a hot flame. And then I feel energy spinning in me and my face feels as though I’m blushing out of embarrassment. Probably because my heart beats fast around him. Then the craziest thing happened I felt him lean over me and before I knew it I felt what can only be described as warm physical lips touch mine! But there was no one there…I was shocked, it felt as though I was complete and my heart was racing as well as feeling this amazing feeling I never thought existed. Thats the best I can describe the experience. This was also about a week ago, he also stopped showing up in my dreams…I dont recall having any dreams lately either. I thought nothing of it, and of course went back to thinking, “I’m going insane.” After all there is not one day where he isn’t in my mind, almost every second of every day. Another crazy thing, I keep having thoughts that aren’t mine in my head. Yesterday was the strangest thing, yes I did see him. I decided to stay after school to catch up on work and keep my best friend company. We were outside, she was with a group of friends and I was talking with someone. It was raining usual cars picking up kids exc. A blue car caught my attention, I don’t know why my eyes were drawn to it like a magnet. The car slowly comes closer, the window rolls down and who do I see? He looks around for a few seconds and then his gaze ultimately rest on me. I was standing there staring back at him and as usual my mind went blank. The person in the drivers seat. I sensed was in a way laughing. The car leaves, the window rolls up and no one is picked up. The windows seemed as though they were automatic and he didn’t appear to have control of them. I of course told one of my friends, she burst out laughing saying,”He’s a chicken, hes a chicken, he’s a chicken.”and she bets that his family was involved. She might be right, his dad certainly seemed amused and grinning when he was driving in front of us. I dont know anyone in his family, but I do know who his dad is. The heart palpitations have been intense lately and I feel today that i’m missing something. Just a while ago a thought popped in my head saying,”I love her,” and immediately felt that amazing, beautiful feeling take over for a brief moment. Of couse I must be going crazy, but I do know ever since our argument I really went deep inside myself and im loving myself more. I feel love for other people, even who are just friends. And everyone around me keeps telling me that I’m a really nice person. And this just happenened over the course of one or two weeks! It’s amazing what we can learn and experience when we open our hearts. I know I’m saying more than I should, but for some reason I trust you all. Warm smile and blessings to everyone.
Hi everyone,
I am trying to figure out how to sever ties. When I do I will share it with everyone. Nothing is worth being minimized ridiculed and having your spirit crushed and soul pierced. Nothing. I am like a puppet. And he the puppet aster. My thoughts are injected with his toxic venom my body my emotions. He does not care one iota about what it does to me, myy life those around me we all pay the price. I am one of the less fortunate, TF relationships sound wonderful, I think healthy doses even epic doses of hardship sold make it worthwhile but not if the person is not. So if that’s the case let them go in compassion and move forward. Who knows how many new doors will open, there is a first time for everything and I would love to find another who treats this beautiful experience with the reverence and respect it deserves and treats their TF with. Absolute love honor dignity and respect. These are the corner stones for any relationship. My experience has been such a disappointment, and the person I not know how to describe … Disappointment absolute and total excruciating disappointment. But I am ready to leave it behind and keep moving forward. My Chiron is in Aries. Through this pain I am willing to grow let go of that which is obsolete and move forward. If I am he first I go that route willingly because I know there will always be another who will benefit from my experience. To the person I am yet to meet. No labels .. Just a true friend, a decent fellow cosmic traveller, and someone who wants to be loved with a love that is honest true and respectful. I know you’re out there. Here’s to us!
Anytime anyone uses the word cannot… It’s a problem. Anything can, the probability may be as remote as finding a needle in a haystack but its possible. Tf ties can be severed because one has free will. For instance if TF is committed to ruining your every waking moment are you supposed to take it? If a part of your body is diseased and compromises your very well being does one not amputate? I reckon it’s similar. No one is sentenced to an eternity of abuse and ridicule. What is one supposed todo? Commit soul suicide? Surely source design is not that flawed. There has to be a way out. Next step of evolution if your stuck with a TF whose life mission is to ruin you you have the right to choose to walk. Start over with another. I am not speaking of runners. I am talking about conscious committed deliberate calculated acts of abuse. Repeatedly every minute of every day. No , if that were the case then the poor TF of this psychopath has no hope. That would mean I have no hope and to me that is not acceptable. I have a lot to give and I ain’t waiting for some abuser to come around especially when it’s crystal clear that they have no intention desire to do so. They like being abusive and refuse to give it up. Psychopathic TF is a prolific light worker, author, poet, movie maker, sad. But true. I hope no one on this planet or in the entire universe is as unfortunate as I. Having said that I wish him well. May he write many more best sellers and live and love and find a punching bag to hit and name call and let me be
Dear Hippopotamus,
I understand your reaction to the word, “cannot,” as I deeply feel that things are not this way or that way, but the whole of it and this twin flame journey calls us to look at the bigger picture and not one aspect of something…but let me explain what I mean here when I used that word. Your Beloved twin flame is the other aspect in resonance with your unique vibration of your soul…therefore, you can never be separated (even when your physical bodies are not beside each other) as this is the soul truth of your Oneness as One. Just like you cannot and are never ever separate from God, from Source ~ you may believe that you are, you may perceive that you are, but the truth is that this oneness and connection always is, as it is. You may focus upon this separation and create from it…you may change your focus from your twin flame to what feels right for you in any moment, and this is strongly encouraged as there are three aspects to the oneness ~ your own oneness, the oneness of your twin flame (or another soul mate you choose to love with) and the oneness together…these always need to be maintained before the physical expression of love and during the physical expression of the love that you are. If there are negative intentions and expressions from your twin flame to you…and you are witnessing this, always, you are asked to look within yourself to release the negative response to it…and love it into deeper love. You can release the focus upon your twin flame as I mentioned, but the underlying layer here is that we are always connected to God, to Source, to our twin flame, to each other. By no means, am I promoting to accept abuse in any way…always follow your heart and do what resonates and feels right for you. I love your expression, “Just a true friend, a decent fellow cosmic traveller, and someone who wants to be loved with a love that is honest true and respectful. I know you’re out there. Here’s to us!” Here’s for all of us to allow, welcome in and experience “a love that is honest, true and respectful,” as this is what divine love is…here’s to that love for you and for all of us! Thank you for sharing Beloved, thank you.
Hi Gabriella
Thanks for your response. I see and hear your point but respectfully disagree. I would liken it to amputation. Not fun, painful, relearning how to live life again without a limb, a part of you that was necessary to sever because it was destroying you and your soul. After all if the TF actions are destroying your soul there is only one authority who knows and feels this you and god. Not TF .not in my case anyways. My soul pain is a joke. He’s called me a bitch a cunt a retard amongst other wonderful nomenclature that no human deserves to hear. He assaults me physically psychically if that makes sense. I think I know you see things the way you droits because your TF experience though diifucult is respectful. Mineis not its just derogaotrybothto the person and to the reconnection. Thanks for your reply. I am severing ties. I know what I deserved
Hippopotamus,
by no means would anybody encourage you to endure physical or psychological abuse like you are describing. Feel encouraged to step out of this scenario, all the more so as you are already feeling you want to do that.
If this abusive creature really is your twin, you will tell him by this on the 3D level clearly that you won’t tolerate such an abusive behavior. And this is fine and beneficial. Of course!
The interesting thing is that in your case you feel it is your twinsoul doing this to you. For me it is always like this: if it was someone I don’t like at all and don’t feel I have much in common with, and if I then step away from them, this does not bother me any more. Over and done with. Finished. But in case it is my twinflame it is always a bit different. Whatever she does, no matter how hurtful it may be for me, I feel at the very same time or shortly afterwards also her love that is always there, and this puzzle then really makes me wonder how this can happen and why she says this or does this that hurts me. Of course you are right if you think right now that my journey is also not as hurtful as yours … yes, this is true … but there have also been moments of deepest hurts that I would not forgive someone else that easily, but when it comes to her, it makes me think. It makes me think what the reasons are for saying things and doing things. Because I know so clearly that she loves me.
Please get me right: by any means, do cut the ties to this situation of abuse. Go away from the abuse and into safety. This is the love for yourself, and when this is at stake, you must do something. Of course.
However, I am just saying very softly: people don’t get born that way … and: people normally don’t feel good when acting that way. (No matter what it seems from the outside and whether they admit or don’t admit this.)
So I would like to nudge you very softly to consider that your twin’s soul is very loving and very kind, and that the only thing you cannot sever is the bond on the soul level, and this need not be severed at any moment, because this bond is a heavenly divine bond and it exists only in the light, in the holy divine light of GOD. And in this holy space you can still be connected to your twin and also love and be loved by your twin, even if his behavior on earth is so unbearable you cannot stand it any longer. This is no contradiction.
Much love and light to you and all,
Delphina
Thanks very much for the very insightful response. Greatly appreciated Delphina. I am perfect, I never expect anyone to be perfect either. I’ve always been this way. This is a great strength I have. But as a flawed person I have a bottom line and its got a much higher threshold for tolerance than most. Much more than TF for sure who has no ability to respect another or compromise. It’s his way or the highway. And his way includes his tenacious intent and daily renewal of this commitment to desecrate me and the connection. Yes I lash back but it’s when I have been pushed so far much further than I ever thought I could. I asked him to be a friend in 3d, he does not want, I asked him to say hi every now and again that too is a no. He has a relationship he is committed too and loves her very much. However he is addicted to me because he wants me energetically for sex, to increase the heart connection with his partner. To increase the level of their intimacy, to provide him with the intangible that he does not get from his beuatiful relationship. In fact one of his favoits ones is torn between two lovers. I empathize, and as giving as I like to think I am, I cannot do this, I cannot give, you say maintain a soul tie nd cut earthly ties, well my soul cannot do this my heart and soul are that of a absolute physical monogamist. I cannot touch someone unless I love hem and I cannot. That’s my soul what he is asking of me is impossible because it means compromising my soul. I can give him friendship and love of a friendly and sisterly kind but I cannot let him touch me and give of my soul when I know he is being physical at his end with someone else. Do you know what else? He was actively and intentionally deceptive about it he kept saying best friend best friend in my ear( telepathy) but he has been a judas. He lied to me all along , and all along he was with another. That is his choice why when where is not my concern anymore. Tring o to understand why he’s with one one only to use me is none of my concern either. I have to look out for me because he will take and take and give me nothing but psychic physical abuse. I get hit on my head, I get called names. Yes and when I can take no more I name callback. But it’s when I have been provoked beyond the Jesse mark. The physical abuse includes messing around with my genitalia, so tell me how to control myself when my gnitalia are messed with? There are normal physical reactions that react and I do, then he gets what he wants when he wants. I know beyond the shadow of a doubt he is making love with his partner at the very same moment, and he is able to manipulate the situation very well. I guess I need to take responsibility and not let it happen but it would be likened to a situation where you are injected with huge doses of anesthesia repeatedly throat the day and then learning how not to loowitbto put you out. It would be physically impossible because the anesthetic is injected into your body and the gas in inhaled via the lungs it’s a physiological reaction and I would have to be the Buddha to have the ability to control my bodily reactions. Having said hat the Buddha walked away from situations that made him compromise his soul and our path I don’t have that luxury. I have to endure this shi 24/7. I could go on… But I would sound like I am a fruit salad. I want to sever the tie because he will never take into consideration what it does to me. If being connected to me forces him to be an animal then perhaps the kindest thing to do is sever the tie. I love him. But I cannot do this anymore. And I am willing to let go in kindness and compassion and free us both so we can live and be true to our respective situations. It will be painful like amputation and hard but doable. Just need to relearn how to live a new norm.
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I unfortunately don’t think there’s a way to sever the ties. However, the only advice is to block him. Much Luck 🙂
Foregot to add, you need to find a way to block his energy,
Anything is possible. If it can be conceived it can be done. Sad that such a beautiful and sacred gift can be intentionally desecrated. There is no fairness here. He is psychically more bale at the moment and it makes my every waking moment hell on earth. I hear him laugh becaus ethics is a good life a good good life. The only thing that keeps me going is my belief that I know I will find new possibilities….. Becuase he does not care about anything but ruining this. It is his daily mantra and the one thing he does with no qualms with absolute resolve and commitment. He ent d to ruin everything
I have only recently become familiar with the term Twin Flame. I have found mine. It is enlightening and difficult at the same time. I have become so much stronger in the time that I have known him and I see that he is evolving as well, but egos and karma seem to keep us from total bliss. Despite our tribulations we love each other so deeply. I have never known a love this immense or intense. I prayed for him and he finally came to me. The pain is worth the pleasure of knowing that we have finally found each other. Our lives mirror each other and we pretty much can read each other so well. It actually doesn’t scare us because it is so familiar. As I read these other stories about Twin Flames and wanting to severe ties and block the other, I have to wonder if these are true TF versus Soulmates or Balancing Flames. I’ve had Soulmates in my life before so I can definitely say that I know the difference between the two. Well, I wish you all the best in your journeys and I must say that to reconnect with your Twin Flame is to hold Eternity in the palm of your hand.