It is time for me to bring more awareness to the concept of releasing separation so that we can fully know and experience union in all ways, always, in each moment, in each relationship. Have you heard that in order for you to attract the ideal mate (your soul mate, your twin flame) to you, you need to be single, physically not in relationship with another person? Well, I am here to tell you that this is not so. It is absolutely ok, and very healthy for you to be in relationship with a soul mate and call to you in physical form another higher soul mate or your twin flame.
Let me explain this a little bit. In order for a twin flame relationship to exist, and to remain for the long term, there needs to be the highest vibration of unconditional love for yourself, for your twin, and for anyone else that is involved. SO, if you or your twin is in physical relationship with another, and you come in contact with them, know that there is a process for this transition to occur in order for you both to be in relationship with one another. In order for twin flames to come together, there has to be such deep, unconditional love. There cannot exist jealousy, anger, envy, bitterness. Know that you are never separated from your twin. If you are not in physical relationship right now, please know that you are always connecting and communicating through your heart, your soul, your spirit, in dreams, through your thoughts and emotions. As with any transition, there are layers of growth and easing into the next step, which is necessary for the next steps to completely unfold.
The only way for your twin flame to leave another person that they are in relationship with to merge with you is that there is unconditional love and understanding from you toward your twin, toward the person that your twin is in relationship with. See how this does not take away the love but adds to the love between everyone, creating a circle of increasing the love vibration, as this is what twin flame love is meant to do. Everyone is affected by the high frequency of energy that this love combination creates.
Separation mentality creates the belief that in order for someone to be in union with us, there needs to be a separation from another that they are sharing love and intimacy with. Union consciousness understands that union is always present (we are all connected) and therefore knows that there is a process of transition which occurs step by step, for the benefit of the growth of all the individual souls involved, which ultimately enhances the growth of everyone.
You or your twin do not have to be “single” and not sharing love with another in physical partnership in order for you to come together in love. When you release the beliefs, emotions, behavior patterns that are based in separation, then you are on the path of fully welcoming in union.
There is more on this topic here: Merging From Separation Mentality into Unity Consciousness Continued