Q. I have been following inner guidance. But I recently went through a bad experience with close family which makes me wonder whether I should let go or still hang on to relationships out of a sense of duty. When I felt that everything was going so well, suddenly this shock came and has shaken my inner guidance. This has nothing to do with my twin flame. But I wonder why such shake ups at this stage?
A. Ah, this is a common theme of transitioning your whole being into higher consciousness. What you have previously attached to, the acceptance from others, what you thought you believed and what you believed you felt all goes into question (when looked at from the mind) yet pushes you to go within, again and again, to connect with your inner voice, your inner knowing, that knows despite any attempts from others or from your mind to take you off your path. What you have attached to encourages you to surrender, to surrender knowing that whatever attachment you have placed upon your twin flame, your union, your happiness comes from within you. It is not reliant upon anything outside of you but it is within you that you then bring to those things you are attracted to. The inner attraction is connected to your knowing. That is something to pay attention to and to follow yet as you transition deeper into higher consciousness, the way of union consciousness, you are asked to surrender, to love, yet to release the attachment.
This journey, following your inner guidance, is truly the way of higher consciousness. When you follow your inner guidance, you cannot explain what you feel to others for them to understand and accept your inner guidance. Your inner guidance is YOUR inner voice. You can attempt to explain but those that hear you may not understand. It’s not your responsibility to get others to understand your path. So this whole journey is about following your inner voice, especially when it seems like others are challenging you. This path of higher consciousness pushes us to go within constantly. It’s like bringing the inner to the outer experience yet when we’re in the outer experience, we are experiencing. Then we bring the experience, again inside. From inside, we integrate, we process, we bring what we’ve experienced outside inside, into the vibration of eternal unconditional love. Then again, we bring that inner essence outside again in our experience. Whenever you’re feeling resistance, feeling not accepted from others or misunderstood, that is a call, that’s a sign. Go back within. What are you feeling with the words that are being expressed from another? Does it resonate with your INNER guidance? If it doesn’t, it’s ok. This is about family from the soul on this path of higher consciousness. Yes we have biological family and our biological family souls are chosen to challenge us, many times, because those challenges push us to go within. Transitioning your whole being into this higher consciousness requires you to go within and follow your inner guidance and know yourself from within, spiritually and in human form, and then bringing that constantly around you, in the outer experience.
This makes you also question what you thought you believed, and what you believed you felt. Thoughts, beliefs, feelings are all connected. It takes a conscious awareness for you to be aware of any of those to get to the underlying ideas that you prescribe to. You no longer think what you believe, but to feel it from the space of inner knowing. Then you totally transform this. It’s no longer you think something. Whatever you think, if it’s not connected deeply to an inner knowing, to your inner guidance, anybody outside of yourself, anyone or anything outside can influence what you believe and can steer you in whatever direction they choose in any moment, almost like a puppet. But if you are feeling deeply from within, connected to your inner guidance, your inner voice, your inner knowing, then that becomes an energy that surrounds you. That energy that surrounds you cannot be taken away because it’s flowing throughout your whole entire being.
When you are on this path of higher consciousness, those people that challenge you, are giving you a chance to strengthen your inner voice, your inner guidance. Then once you do that, to extend love to those people. The path of higher consciousness and the path of the twin flame is of union consciousness. Therefore, union consciousness knows everything is connected and underlying everything is love. There’s always something to be received and more love to be received as well as given. In the challenges, allow yourself to receive the love within them and bring yourself within to enhance that love inside. Strengthen that connection to your inner guidance and bring that love outside as you share with those that challenge you. There’s NO victims here. We are all helping each other, deeper and deeper, into union, into love.
Why are these shake ups right now? This is a back and forth process. You will have those challenges, from family, from your experiences along the path, from your own mind (what you thought you believed). You can shake yourself up. It is a back and forth process. It’s not just one time you’re gonna have shake ups. There’s layers and layers that you’re peeling away, bringing you deeper and deeper into your heart, into your knowing, into your inner guidance that knows it all. It really does know it all, but knows it from the heart.
It’s so beautiful. I ask you to see the beauty, see the beauty in this. See the beauty in your challenges. See the beauty in your sadness. See the beauty in your frustration. See the beauty in everything, every single experience, every relationship. Every moment is so connected to everything else. Let the signs and the synchronicities of the universe, the one song which is the universe, show you how everything is SO intimately and intricately ONE, so deeply connected. Union consciousness sees the oneness in everything and it feels the oneness in everything. It chooses to be in that oneness with everything. The deeper you get into this, the more you will see the way that you respond, the way that you are, the way that you be transforms. The challenges that come about…you almost instantaneously surrender your thoughts that whatever is occurring is against you. You transform that. No longer is anything or anyone against you but yet for you. Then you are able to receive what that experience, what that relationship is giving you, bringing it within, allowing it to seep into your heart, to the inner essence of your natural being, which is always love. It increases this desire to want to extend that love to those that have brought you deeper inside to this love that is inside of you, part of you, is you and is everything else. It is this back and forth process. And it’s beautiful…to get into the space of gratitude for those challenges and for those relationships that push you again to go within and strengthen your inner guidance, the well spring of love inside of you. It is truly divine. It is one reason we are here, as spiritual beings in these human bodies. The more that you see in that way, the more everything becomes more beautiful than even beautiful can express.
As you know, you are never disconnected from anything or anyone, and most especially your twin flame, which is the other half of your soul, the other aspect of your soul. Whenever you get challenged, it does have to do with your twin flame. You are always connected, never separated. Anything that you experience, your twin flame is experiencing that with you. The growth that you go through, the increasing of love that you allow, you allow it for the both of you. You allow it for ALL. Some good questions to ask are “what would love do now? What would love feel now? How would love be expressed now?” As you bring those questions to your awareness, you surrender, you surrender to the attachment to the mind, the attachment to the “victim,” the attachment to “me and that person,” “us them,” separation. You release that attachment. It then becomes a flowing of energy, of love being expressed and seen through everything. It is divine. It really is truly divine. That’s why you chose to be here, at this time, in the body that you are in right now, in the relationships you are in right now, in your experiences you are in right now. Your inner guidance knows where you are flowing to. Connect with that. Strengthen that. Know it beyond any doubt. Whenever you feel doubt seeping in, go back within. Reconnect to what you know. What you know so deeply within is there for you to remember that you chose this and if you chose it, and you are remembering it, and you’re connecting with it, it is and as it is, you walk, step by step, closer into the human full experience of it. There is no separation. You are always connecting and always connected.
Sending you a lot of love at this time. There is a lot of transitions taking place, internally and externally, for all of us, individually and collectively. I’m asking you to take this invitation, right now, to go within. To go within and reconnect to what you know. Know that you know. When you know that you know, nothing can take that knowing away.
So much love to you on so many levels. As we continue holding hands, and moving deeper and deeper into this higher consciousness of union.
****I made a voice recording of this so that if you feel guided to and desire to close your eyes and receive what is above through voice vibration, you can go here: Strengthening Your Connection to Your Inner Guidance and Inner Voice