He’s Just Not That Into You

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I don’t promote the dating scene when you are attempting to be with your soul mate, because I feel that the way that you find your soul mate is through letting go of the searching energy. However, dating is part of the process of getting to know what you want in a partner and what you don’t want, as well as giving you experience. When you are just going about your every day routines, doing what you enjoy and allowing yourself to be in the moment, you are naturally in the flow of attracting the same energy back to you, as in the form of a partner that matches you. I am very open minded so even though I had a feeling that this movie was going to bring up dating aspects, I felt I needed to see it. I was very impressed with it and want to share some of the reasons why I liked it.

Ultimately, all of us want to experience the same thing with love, within relationships. We want to connect with another person on a deep level that fulfills us in all ways. We want someone to complement us and add to who we are as we do the same for that person, kind of like a seesaw. This is why relationship movies, books, etc. attract so many people. This desire to have and experience that type of love is naturally within us, because truly love is what we are and where we have come from.

This movie does bring out a lot of aspects that dating brings up, however it is done in a clever way. The preview starts as well as the movie starts with a scene in the park. This little girl is playing with some sand and a little boy comes over to push her down, tells her she smells like poo. When she is crying to her mother, her mother says, “the reason why that boy did that is because he likes you.” It is very cleverly stated and brought up many times throughout the movie, the things that women tell each other as we grow up, such as this particular statement, and that of course as a result determines how we will then act within relationships and what we will accept because of beliefs such as this.

It brings out the absurdity of such thoughts and the nuances of the rules that both men and women follow when dating or being with a member of the opposite sex. The truth is that there is no right way for a woman to behave nor a man to behave. Relationships work when people are just naturally being themselves. This is slightly touched on in the movie and there are a couple people that come in contact with the best partner for them in a random way, rather than intentionally dating.

I like the fact that all the characters grow through their experiences and their relationships. It is important to be able to heal from past relationships in order to be ready to receive the partner that is perfect for you, to have the love you desire. When one allows themselves to heal and open their hearts to having the love they desire, and be willing to let go of any actions and thoughts that they need anyone to be happy, then they are operating in the energy field of attracting that person to them.

This movie has paved the way for the one that I am going to be creating…all in good timing, all is perfect. Truly, You Find Your Soul Mate When You Let Go of Searching. 😉