Becoming Whole Before Twin Flame Reunion
Becoming “Whole” Before “Two” Becomes “One”
It is said that one does not meet their Twin Soul or Twin Flame until they have learned many lessons of love, loss and forgiveness through close Soul Mate relationships, that the heart is made resilient and strong through pain and loss, and must be so to face the intensity of being with the other half of their soul.
Many people who have met their Twin Soul had experienced a “Dark Night of the Soul”, or a major spiritual transformation just prior to meeting, or upon meeting this soul. It’s almost as if you need to be “emptied out” emotionally, spiritually and mentally as a test of your spirit. Meeting your “other half” can be a magical, maddening experience that opens your perceptions. Some experience an opening of their psychic awareness as their heart expands in this unbounded and unconditional love. The fact is, your life will not be the same, and whether you perceive this as a gift or a curse is the challenge of your soul’s evolution. The Twin Soul connection is always a triad involving the Divine Spirit/All That Is, two people connected by soul, connected to God.
Before one can physically unite with their Twin Soul, one must do the conscious work of healing and becoming whole within their self. Twin Soul love cannot exist in a codependent, ego-based relationship, or from a perceived “need” that the other person will make you whole. Both must often face separations while they strengthen their own connection to Spirit and find their strength and purpose on their own.
Each half will find balance in their male/female, yin/yang before union. When both halves of the Soul become strong pillars on their own, have healed and resolved karmic ties in the present life, then they can unite to fulfill their Divine purpose, but the challenges do not end. There is an intensity that can be frightening when dealing with your mirror, your weaknesses and strengths magnified, unresolved issues and wounds painfully open to push you to further healing, or cause ego to run from the relationship in fear. It’s important for Twin Souls to find their greater purpose, whether it’s a task they will accomplish together, or alone, there will be work to be done.
Some Twin Souls do not unite physically here on Earth, and the relationship may last a lifetime on the spiritual level alone, while one or both may be living physically with another soul in karmic agreement. Some Twin Souls other halves are not even on the Earth plane at the same time and will offer guidance and comfort from beyond as a “guardian angel.”Psychic Connections and Synchronicity
Psychic and spiritual connection with your twin soul is intense and profound. Many experience a feeling of connection in a matrix of golden white threads of light, whether consciously or in a dream state. Some have strong psychic connection with their twin, feeling their thoughts embrace them mutually in an ecstatic place of comfort and bliss. You may feel your twin’s pain and suffering in heart-wrenching anguish. Often physical symptoms are shared between twins, simultaneous nosebleeds, headaches, body aches are confirmed by both twins.
synchronicity: the coincidental occurrence of events and especially psychic events (as similar thoughts in widely separated persons or a mental image of an unexpected event before it happens) that seem related but are not explained by conventional mechanisms of causality; used especially in the psychology of C. G. Jung
Synchronicity plays an important part in twin soul meetings… I like to say that synchronicity is God’s way of getting your attention. You may find simular experiences in the same timeframes before you even met, marriages, births, divorces, illnesses. You may find that you had lived as neighbors in totally different towns at some point in your lifes or vacationed in the same country at the same time.
I love you all SO very much! Have patience, keep loving you and being and loving…all is in divine order.
Bob, you can read my response to your question here: Every Step is Perfect and in Divine Order for Your Reunion with Your Twin Flame
You can read my response to your question here: The Transformation of the Perception of Forgiveness from the Perspective of Union
Yes, this sounds exactly like what I have been going through. Right now, my twin flame and I are not seeing each because it would compromise the integrity of both our situations. Yet we are linked to each other’s sleep schedule, health, emotions, and dreams. It has been magical and devastating. Sometimes I want to block the connection because it’s so hard to not be able to be with him physically, and to just go on with my life as if nothing has changed. We do not understand why we had to meet right now…when it seems there is no way for us to be together in a way that will benefit everyone involved. In the last three months, since metaphysically fusing with him, I have been faced with every issue and every wound I have been unable or unwilling to see about myself prior. I try to be thankful that I got to see his face in this life, but it’s hard. I feel like the connection itself is what is keeping me from being able to be a person in his life. I am trying to keep an open heart, while at the same time trying to protect integrity. Trying to love- yet having to block our union. I am trying to learn my lessons. I seek so much Divine guidance in this process. I thank you for sharing your information.
I’m so glad I stumbled on this article. Bridget, I completely identify with the way you feel…wanting to block the connection because the seperation is so difficult. I was in a similar situation, unable to be with my twin for years. Then when we finally had a chance, the connection was so intense and my soul opened to psychic experiences and a heightened awareness I’d never known. I’d never loved so deeply. But the challenges were so difficult of facing our faults (as mirrors will show you) that we could not sustain. My twin ran with his ego, and though I understand and knew I had work to do myself, the split has been the most difficult experience of my life.
It IS hard to hold the love in your heart when you know you can’t be together. At times, I feel I will be swallowed by the desire for something that not only cannot be right now. I suppose we must work on patience if we believe that a reunion is the ultimate destination.
Sending peace your way.
Well holy crap after what I thought was a Twin Flame relationship last year I basically gave up on both finding mine at all, let alone any relationship. I haven’t come to understanding at this point in my soul’s journey that anything less is worth the time. In fact, I realize now that I (of course) knew my entire life that I would meet mine, and it’s why I’ve approached every relationship as not completely significant.
So my surprise hit me totally unexpected when we finally realized what was happening just over a week ago. Far too much to write, but suffice it to say that it is far beyond clear. What the hell though…she’s in a relationship! Obviously if it were a solid relationship then we wouldn’t have discovered “us”. But, she still has to learn some valuable karmic lessons – and so my question is probably more in seeking validation. What do I do? I know the answer…and I’m living it. It is painful, yet I know it is the divine answer for us both. We are working on friendship and exploring all that is aligned and how we can incorporate it into work for the earth and its inhabitants (no surprise, we have aligned passions – that is how we reunited). I guess I could use a little 3D guidance, just to reassure that I’m hanging in there for a reason. Patience is never my friend :). And besides, we only realized this all just a few days ago. I think you get the gist. Look forward to your reply!
That shoulda said “I HAVE come to the understanding….that anything less ISN’T worth the time and the energy”. Why? Because I’ve lived a lot this life and past lives. I know my mission here is the culmination of all those experiences, and I’m in mission mode at this point. I’ll just sabotage anything else.
Obviously if it were a solid relationship then we wouldn’t have discovered “us”. This is my question, if my relationship would be as strong as it was supposed to be; maybe I will not even reconize my TF. But my relationship is not a traditional husband-wife relationship. It is more like sister-brother relationship. So, right now I just follow the divine path.
The whole concept of a twin flame is very foreign to me; I felt my while life that I was destined to be alone (and unloveable). Imagine my surprise and suspicion when I meet the man who days he’s my twin flame. Everything matches up to what you’ve written here, but I’m still frightened to open up to him completely. A close bond doesn’t mean you won’t be hurt eventually. Yes, that’s something I’m dealing with, as I have a long and sad history of live bring ripped away or being completely conditional (my adoptive family).
It’s almost impossible for me to accept that, after 30 of years of rejection, hers the perfect love you’ve been waiting for. Why does the Universe make someone suffer until they barely believe in love?
Does anyone know where the image in this article came from? My friend came across this image and it looks exactly like me. I was kind of awestruck when I saw it.
Very interesting. I have been meditating and seeing flashes of my Twin in visions. I thought he was this guy my Best Friend (and soul family) is dating right now funny enough. He looks almost exact. He looks young, looks about 17-18, but then again I look very young for 24, some people still think Im 16, small build and young features, like I dont age. Anyways. So last night I dreamt of him, I met him. I was staring at this guy, in the eyes, saying and pointing, there he is. No sound. And he just stood a few meters away, and didn’t say anything back, he just smiled at how exited I was (I think)… I wish I could just learn his name…So how do I bring him into my physical life now?
In June 2012 I was being told my future via my thoughts but didn’t know what was happening.
August 2012 I ran into a woman in a place I am near everyday but never go to, but I was forced to move home and found myself there.
When I saw her eyes “stuff happened” 🙂
I know now that my third eye opened etc. And again I received a messgage telling me I had been brought to her and that we were going to be togeather.
She put me into a spirutual awakening, and with everything that has happened, I can see there is something strong between us, but now is not the time. so, dark night of the soul is with me now 🙂
I was recently told I am a medium which didn’t suprise me with everything that has happened in my life.
A major event is suppose to happen to me this year that will bring us togeather (so I hope)
I would never have believed any of this was possible, but it is happening to me!
Thanks for the website.