Dance in Balance with LOVE

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1. Dearest Gabriella,
   It is so truer. So many shocking things have been happening in and around my life and some miracles too. I am seeing my loved ones going thro emotional and physical turmoil. It is so painful and I am trying to bring the balance outside of me to be with them and help them through. In fact yesterday, my siblings appealed to me to help them through their period of crisis, saying that I am spiritually connected and that I can help them. Though one them abused me badly on many occasions , I see them come Back and apologise And seek my help. Here I am empathising and doing my best to help. I have not had so many upheavels coming like this back to back. It is exhausting. I do not know where this figures in my TF journey. Dearest Gabriella, my TF is still the same. He stills keeps a huge distance. What do I make of it ? He is neither here nor there. Sometimes when I text deep intense emotions, he accepts them all. Sometimes he just shuts off and does not want to receive any messages from me. This is going on and on and on. Now I am so exhausted , so much so that I think all this is my wishful thinking. Every time I keep getting messages to hold on and not let go at this final leg of the journey .
   What is it Gabriella ? Why is he still claiming that he wants me but never makes any effort to be with me ? What do you think he is expecting . All my expressions of love to him are received but verbally he says , he feels no emotion. Why is he projecting himself like this to me? A few months back when, I said that I cannot hurt him anymore and kept away, he called back and spoke to me. Then it was back to square A.
   There is something here that I am missing . Maybe I am too emotional see it. What is being expected of me ? All my soul searching has finally led to be more balanced in my relationships, but regarding my TF, I do not know where I stand. One day, you mentioned that you heard a whisper, “the outcome is assured ” and you guided me to go ahead with faith. I have Gabriella. I hold on to faith, trust, love , stay in the divine flow, but at times like this, I start getting serious doubts , and feel lost.
   Can you see a pattern and discern what I am missing out on and where I should set things right?

2. Dearest Gabriella,
   It is SO AMAZING. I JUST NOW POURED OUT MY PAIN TO YOU AND SOUGHT YOUR GUIDANCE. THEN I CHECKED OUT YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE AND COME UP WITH THIS POST OF YOURS THAT I HAVE COPIED AND PASTED HERE. I WAS STUNNED . HOW ARE WE SO CONNECTED … IT RESONATES SO STRONGLY AND I AM OVERWHELMED WITH THE BEAUTY OF ALL THIS. I FEEL SO HUMBLED AND AM SENDING AND WAVES OF WAVES OF LOVE. YOU ARE AN ANGEL COME TO GUIDE US. GOD IS SPEAKING THROUGH YOU. IT IS A MIRACLE. AND I HAVE NO WORDS TO THANK YOU. LOVE TO YOU AND ALL HERE. I AM FILLED WITH WONDER …..
   Gabriella Hartwell – Intuitive Relationship Life Coach and Author shared Immortal Angels ?’s photo.
   Yesterday
   This is just beautiful ~ the words ~ the picture ~ the vibrations. Love, love, love, deeply, profoundly, always, all ways, LOVE, as this is what continues to shape the New world we are birthing anew with each breath of love that we are, with each expression of the divinity that we are. ? ? ?
   If you want to change the world love a man; really love him
   Choose the one whose soul calls to yours clearly who sees you.
   Who is brave enough to be afraid
   Accept his hand and guide him gently to your hearts blood
   Where he can feel your warmth upon him and rest there
   And burn his heavy load in your fires
   Look into his eyes look deep within and see what lies dormant
   Or awake or shy or expectant there
   Look into his eyes and see there his fathers and grandfathers and all the wars and madness their spirits fought in some distant land, some distant time
   Look upon their pains and struggles and torments and guilt;
   without judgment and let it all go
   Feel into his ancestral burden
   And know that what he seeks is safe refuge in you
   Let him melt in your steady gaze
   And know that you need not mirror that rage
   Because you have a womb, a sweet,
   Deep gateway to wash and renew old wounds.

   If you want to change the world love a man, really love him
   Sit before him, in the full majesty of your woman in the breath of your vulnerability
   In the play of your child innocence in the depths of your death
   Flowering invitation, softly yielding, allowing his power as a man
   To step forward towards you…and swim in the Earth’s womb, in silent knowing, together
   And when he retreats…because he will…flees in fear to his cave…
   Gather your grandmothers around you…envelope in their wisdoms
   Hear their gentle shusshhhed whispers, calm your frightened girls’ heart
   Urging you to be still…and wait patiently for his return
   Sit and sing by his door, a song of remembrance,
   That he may be soothed, once more.

   If you want to change the world, love a man, really love him
   Do not coax out his little boy
   With guiles and wiles and seduction and trickery
   Only to lure him…to a web of destruction
   To a place of chaos and hatred
   More terrible than any war fought by his brothers
   This is not feminine this is revenge
   This is the poison of the twisted lines
   Of the abuse of the ages, the rape of our world
   And this gives no power to woman it reduces her as she cuts off his balls
   And it kills us all
   And whether his mother held him or could not
   Show him the true mother now
   Hold him and guide him in your grace and your depth
   Smoldering in the center of the Earth’s core
   Do not punish him for his wounds that you think don’t meet your needs or criteria
   Cry for him sweet rivers
   Bleed it all back home.

   If you want to change the world love a man, really love him
   Love him enough to be naked and free
   Love him enough to open your body and soul to the cycle of birth and of death
   And thank him for the opportunity
   As you dance together through the raging winds and silent woods
   Be brave enough to be fragile and let him drink in the soft, heady petals of your being
   Let him know he can hold you stand up and protect you
   Fall back into his arms and trust him to catch you
   Even if you’ve been dropped a thousand times before
   Teach him how to surrender by surrendering yourself
   And merge into the sweet nothing, of this worlds’ heart.

   If you want to change the world, love a man, really love him
   Encourage him, feed him, allow him, hear him, hold him, heal him
   And you, in turn, will be nourished and supported and protected
   By strong arms and clear thoughts and focused arrows
   Because he can, if you let him, be all that you dream.
   If you want to love a man, love yourself, love your father
   Love your brother, your son, your ex-partner; from the first boy you kissed,
   To the last one you wept over
   Give thanks for the gifts; of your unraveling to this meeting
   Of the one who stands before you now
   And find in him the seed to all that’s new and solar
   A seed that you can feed to help direct the planting
   To grow a new world… together
   ??? Stellar ???????

   Artwork ‘Embrace’ by Radhika Hersey© ?

3. Dearest Sleeping Beauty,

   Breaking open again…always, with each exchange of love allowed in and given out, our hearts break open to expand within the vibration of love that we are! How amazing this is, for sure! It never ever ceases to amaze me of the depth and intimacy that this brings one to feel, spiritually and physically! So yes, can we be this connected…can we resonate so deeply with one another, why yes, for it happens ALL the time! And it is truly divine, constantly showing us of the connection that IS always there…which is one thing that I was writing to you in response to your previous comment ~ now, since I am one who honors the flow of each moment and the messages that come within (taking nothing as happening by chance), I must share with you sweet one what happened as I went to respond to your first comment. I was feeling rather strongly, intuitively, that I needed to wait to respond…and then to add to that feeling, the internet literally disconnected, so I started to write to you via Microsoft Word…and then along comes your second comment. SO, NOW, I feel that you got it…you really got it with what you connected to in this poem (it’s all there!) and I’m feeling that perhaps sit with this and let your own guidance (as it is totally there, tapping you on the shoulder, nestling into the crevices of your being, merging with the love in your heart) bring you to answering your own questions…you might even already have the answers and know that you do as you are reading this…so I’m hesitating to type here what I was originally responding to you…

   Thank you for your sweet words as I am constantly humbled and profoundly blessed each time that I share here with you and with all that come along. Receiving those waves of love you have sent and sending them back upon you so softly…that you may be inspired to love, and to keep loving, again, again, always, in all ways. Love to you as that love I send and that you receive extends out to everyone else here…

4. Dearest Sleeping Beauty and dearest Gabriella,

   I am overwhelmed and sooooo deeply touched in my whole being … I woke up this morning listening to God and the angels, letting the warm sunshine into my heart that was softly coming through the open bedroom window, seeing the blue blue sky … it all looked like summer … and I suddenly *knew* deep down on the inside what God and his angels had been telling me through a most beautiful synchronicity that happened with my twinflame and that has brought so many blessings to the two of us. Often these messages from heaven are multi-layered, I have the impression, and most of the time I don’t get it all at the moment of happening. And this morning I suddenly realized what this message I had received wanted to tell me … and the I came here …. and here is this poem, this beautiful poem … and … *tears are coming to my eyes* …. it is *exactly* what the message was that I received this morning … and at the same time an extension of it. What the poem says is exactly what I have been doing … and my message was “only” 😉 that I was on the right track AND that this track would lead me to my twin … the message was clear and a very powerful knowing that exactly this path leads to my twinflame and we will find each other again, with open hearts, with nothing keeping us from each other …. and that I was to continue on this path.

   Now I come here and read all of these beautiful things, validating my own message, validating all I have been doing so far, and guiding me and sharing more insights into what to do …. so I feel it is a divine guidance that helps me go on and tell me what to do … I am soooo deeply grateful to both of you for sharing it, dear Gabriella and dear Sleeping Beauty … and am sending you waves and waves of deepest sweetest love and yes, this love extends of course to everyone here 🙂

5. Dearest Gabriella
   Phew what synchronicities ! How I wish I could share all this with my TF. So much happening to me and I long to share it all with him. Your insights are valuable Gabriella and is helping me so much. I am getting goose pimples when I see all these synchronicities !!!! God is guiding us.. I pray for strength to go through all this. Gabriella when so you feel all this reunion will happen ?
   Dear Delphina !
   I am so glad that all this helped you too. we are all in this together and yours words have often helped and encouraged me. Thank you.
   Love to all !!! Oh UNIVERSE DO REUNITE ALL TWINFLAMES !!

6. Dearest Sleeping Beauty,

   You always bring a smile to my face! Now that you have asked when the reunion will happen, I am guided to share with you what was coming through yesterday as I was responding to your first comment…let it soak within your being for I know that you will understand it and it will create an ever awakening remembrance of your own souls intention and sweetness. Btw, as you share with your own consciousness and with others, you are also sharing with your TF ~ feel that, feel that every open exchange is an exchange between you and your divine Beloved, as this Beloved energy continues to flow in and out, bringing us ALL into the arms of the sacred love that we are.

   Here is what I wrote last eve for you Sleeping Beauty ~ Let go of expectations of self and twin…just be…flow…when you let go of expectations, then there isn’t any concern of “when” the outcome will show itself to you and you don’t need any signs outside of your self to confirm what you have received and what you are deeply connected to. You allow the outcome to take care of itself, to unfold as it will, yet you flow with your guidance and emotions in each moment ~ if you want to express yourself, you do it, but that expression no longer requires an outside sign or reassurance from your Beloved in order for you to stay connected to what you deeply feel ~ that “the outcome is assured.” This moves you into a space of surrendering into what is right now and therefore, the outcome is not only not focused upon, but merges into union with what IS right now… you experience yourself into it, and then the WHOLE picture of all of the steps that have unfolded and needed to happen before the “outcome” fully becomes realized and experienced in your life, make sense. It all fits together, the puzzle within your perception is made whole, brought into the oneness that it always has been.

   Release the expectations on yourself, that you have to do something for your twin to “prove” his love for you, to move closer to you, to do anything really to show that he loves you. Know that beyond any tangible proof, he loves you, you love him, your love flows always within each moment…and let that truth sustain you while you focus on balancing the vibration of love within you as you bring that balanced expression of love into all of your relationships, your perceptions, your creations in all areas of your life. As you have shared, all of your relationships are becoming balanced as a result of you staying deeply connected and your commitment to balancing the love that you are within yourself as you extend this love forward…this will continue…and this balancing you are doing for you, you are also doing for and with your Beloved which in turn affects all as ONE…this is the path of experiencing yourself in union with the love that you are. This is transcending the illusions and limitations of love to continue to move into the expansion and truth of the infinite vibration of divine love that knows only love, perceives only love, chooses to express and be only love. Within this transcendence you flow into balance with love, dancing further into the experience of your oneness and love…no longer attached to anything “outside” of you, but loving, being, and feeling the sweetness within you at all times. Let yourself surrender, right here and now, to how you are, how your twin is, how things are, right now, knowing that it’s all about moving deeper within love and bringing that wellspring of love into expression with all that is, in every moment.

   Consider transforming and even transcending your perception of the “huge” distance ~ I know that you know that there truly is no separation, yet the separation has been created so that we can remember ourselves into the experience of the oneness and love that we are…hence we are merging into the union that already is through the illusion of separation. The “huge” distance becomes lessened when not only do we see this, but we penetrate the layers, the surface of this illusion and move into the depths of the truth that lies within the experiencing of observing and remembering the illusion away. Reality takes on a whole other vision then…think of the vision of a tug of rope ~ the illusion is that you are far away from the other pushing and pulling on the rope ~ but then the more you surrender the struggle and the illusion of fighting against what is, you move closer and closer together, as you feel yourself moving closer ~ hence experiencing the oneness and love that you are!

   Remember “reunion” is remembering union ~ remembering you and I (you and your twin with all that is) on a journey of experiencing the oneness and love that is…as you bring this consistently into expression within and without, you merge into union within the experiencing of that oneness, you become one in all ways with it, and walk into the love, deeper and deeper.

   Dearest Delphina,

   You bring a smile to my face as well! I am so glad that I could bring tears to your eyes with the beauty of all of the connections between us and the constant, neverending guidance from this sweet and abundant universe to remind us that we are on the right path! As you continue walking along your journey, I have no doubt that the reassurances will enfold you, that the love will surround you, and that you will know what to do in any moment, and when to allow as well ~ moving ever so deeply into the balance with every and all things. Such beauty when you allow yourself to follow a silent and gentle nudging that you receive and then find out why that was so…hence the preparedness by experiencing every moment along the journey. We might not always know what this present experience is gifting us until the next one unfolds and maybe even the next, but it all is arranging into a beautiful puzzle which is the masterpiece of your own specific creation, and it’s truly divine! This is why it is so important to honor what is knowing that it is connected to everything else…to let the illusion of separateness to fall away. Sending you such deep waves of love to your beautiful heart and soul dear Delphina! *hugs galore and love some more* to us all!

7. Dearest Gabriella,
   Thank you for this loving answer put so sweetly and with so much clarity. I just needed this. I needed this strong support, someone to tell me clearly what to do and how to react. The Long periods of perceived separation tends to start giving a lot of self doubts. Discussions like this that we have on your blog is a wonderful way to stay afloat. so much wisdom from you. I am deeply moved. Lovet to you and we will continue to connect with you and seek your encouragement and support.,Gabriella, DEar ANGEL.

8. Dear Sleeping Beauty, Thanks for the copy and paste of this wonderful Gabriella’s post. I’m speechless and humble with the beauty of these reflexions. It helps me a lot.
   Love to you and everybody

9. Dear Joanna,
   Yes it is a wonderful poem and it helped me so much when I was plagued with doubts. The timing was perfect and it dissolved all my fears and doubts. Love to you. I feel maybe you should talk to your TF and get to know him first as friends . Try to put your age difference aside and make some conversation with him. Then just follow your intuition.