The Transformation of the Perception of Forgiveness from the Perspective of Union
Q. Could you speak on twin flames and forgiveness?
A. This is a great topic! Forgiveness is a two part process, on a human level and a spiritual level. From a human standpoint, it may seem necessary to forgive the twin flame for whatever reason the mind can attach to that which would need to be released. However from a spiritual perspective, there truly is no need to forgive. Let me explain…as discussed in previous blogs, questions answered and what will be expressed in detail in my second book, is the awareness of soul contracts/agreements. Before physical incarnation, your soul has agreed with not only your twin soul but other souls what you will accomplish together when in these human bodies, when you would come in contact with one another, what would be healed, created, expressed, shared, etc., so therefore, if the “challenges” or bumps along the journey have already been planned, there truly is nothing to forgive. Forgiving = to be thankful to the soul supplying the experience *for giving* you the opportunity to grow within unconditional love, to heal any aspects of perceiving separation (the need to forgive – seeing something done to you as separate from your creation and done TO you rather than WITH you), to heal, move ever deeper into the truth of union (you and I as one), which is always present.
There is truly nothing to forgive in the human sense with our twin flames, yet there are emotions, actions, beliefs of separation that are constantly coming up within our psyche for us to be aware of so that they can be healed by being released from our energy field, our consciousness. We are moving ever further into the reality of union consciousness, stepping away from separation mentality. Encountering our twins, becoming consciously aware of the presence and connection we have with our twin flames accelerates the process of moving from this energy field of separation into union, and it can be done regardless of whether you are physically merged with your twin flame or not, for the truth is that separation is only an illusion, and union is always present. We do carry with us in our cellular DNA, the individual and collective memory of the original split/physical separation from our twin flames, with each other, and from Source (all of these three aspects), and it is in feeling the human emotions of this that we transform/change our cellular DNA to recognize only union, becoming ever more aware of when separation mentality is seeping its way into our sight/our experience.
The forgiveness, therefore, on a human level is to acknowledge and be aware of the aspects of separation that emerge within your psyche and allow yourself to release them. If you need to cry because you feel the pain of separation from your twin (which again, is merely an illusion as you are always one), allow the tears to flow without having to understand why they are flowing. If you need quiet time to contemplate or just sit in silence to be aware of what thoughts are creating the pain of feeling separated, give yourself this space as you transform what you think/believe regarding such illusions so that you can move into the truth of your union with all that is, your own wholeness, which increases the energy of oneness for everyone and everything else. We truly are all connected through a tapestry of beautiful energy which is always connecting us as we are healing this creation of separation that has been ongoing for millennia, and you are not alone, though you are part of the one that is coming back to oneness knowing that we have never left, and therefore, you will be feeling the effects along with us all. Yet the rewards are massive as we continue to move forward, literally and figuratively, holding hands with one another as we intertwine our essences ever deeper in co-creation with our twin flame, creating a huge circle of everincreasing deep, unconditional love.