Q. What if twinflames cannot be together.. how does one go on? How am I expected to live life, to be with anyone else? I cannot see it possible to ever touch anyone or kiss anyone or allow anyone else to touch me…he is the ONLY one,.. and I have never been like this until now. Please answer that question.. how does one go on without their twinflame? How I’m suppose to live the rest of my life without my TF?
A. I encourage you to feel within yourself as to why you are asking how to live your life without your twin flame. The journey is so much about letting go of the need to control everything, the need to know everything right now, but rather to let yourself be in the NOW moments as they unfold, trusting that everything is always, all ways, flowing in perfection. If you think of what I’ve shared many times previously, that your soul has chosen your life path, your life purpose and the people you have and will join with to play out all you have intended, you have already chosen everything you’ve experienced up to right now, as well as everything that will play out from now forward. If you feel a deep connection to uniting in all ways with your twin flame, and you feel this to be your truth, then why go into thinking of it never happening? Move into trusting that what is showing up right now, what you are experiencing right now is perfect, that you are where you are meant to be, sharing with who you are meant to be sharing with, and experiencing what you are because you have chosen it. Therefore, you have the choices to make right now, as to what you can give and receive right here and now, and with each step as you walk your path.
For so long, we have walked the path of wanting to know ahead of time, to plan out our life step by step, way before we are even there yet…and this twin flame journey encourages us to be in the moment, following our heart and our inner guidance as it comes, flowing into one experience to the next, etc. You don’t need to go into wondering how tomorrow will be when you are right here, right now, in THIS moment…let tomorrow flow and unfold as it will, as you ride the waves of your emotions and intuition. If you are feeling that you don’t desire to be intimate with your soul mate (if you are in a relationship) or if you are single and wondering how you will ever be able to love another, I ask you not to focus on such thoughts…let it all take care of itself…if another comes along, you will know what to do in that moment. If you are currently with a soul mate and feeling like you need to connect within and desire not to be physically intimate, express your feelings to your partner. Know that you are not responsible for how another will perceive your truth and your emotions, but you have every right to express how you feel in any moment. The truth is that your emotions are energy in motion and always flowing within fluidity, ever changing with each moment, and the same is the case for your truth(s) as they may be shifting and shaping themselves anew as you move along…ride the waves and express yourself as you are guided in each moment. There is no need to attach to how you are feeling in this moment…let it all flow through, as you are guided into each step. My advice: Live your life right now, moment to moment, constantly connecting within and following your guidance as it comes…you don’t need a plan RIGHT NOW for the rest of your life. You are shaping it with each step that you take, creating it with each choice you make and being it with each expression of love you extend.