Love is Meant to be Shared Every Day
Feb11

Love is Meant to be Shared Every Day

Ah, so last year at this time, I remember posting about Valentine’s Day, which is considered the day of expressing love. What I’m going to say is very similar to what I shared last year. Valentine’s Day is a commercial holiday and that’s it really. I mean, I am a lover of love and believe me, I would be the first to say, “yes, let’s honor love,” but I profoundly feel that honoring, expressing and sharing in love is meant to be an everyday experience, not just one day a year. There is a problem, I’d say, if you only wait until February 14th to show the ones that you deeply care about, that you love them. Every day is meant to be another opportunity for you to bask in the awesomeness of YOU first of all, because all relationships start with YOU, and if you don’t have a pretty darned good one with yourself, chances are, any others will reflect it. I honestly feel this way about every holiday, even Christmas, Hanukkah, etc. What are we really celebrating in at that time? The birth of Christ (who represents kindness, love, giving) supposedly didn’t even happen in December, so what we are bringing to our attention at that time, is LOVE and GIVING, pretty similar to Valentine’s Day. If Valentine’s Day and Christmas (or whatever specifics you celebrate) were expressed, shared in, and focused on EVERY day, we would have a pretty beautiful world, in every moment. I believe that the movie and book PAY IT FORWARD truly had this intention, to create a world in which giving and loving, sincerely, would be something that we did, as individuals and a collective, all the time, every day, every moment. My message to you as this day of LOVE approaches, is to LOVE, but love right now…why wait until Valentine’s Day? LOVE after February 14th, every day afterwards…don’t just focus on the day itself, for truly, it is only manmade…the soul and the heart knows that love is always present, even without a calendar. 😉 Happy loving. Plus, I encourage you to read my post from last year, awesome information in there: Happy Love Day Every...

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Happy Love Day Every Day
Feb14

Happy Love Day Every Day

Today is Valentine’s Day and it is considered the day where we express our love to those we are in relationship with. However, I want to bring out the idea that love is really a choice to share in with yourself and others, to be expressed within your relationships, and to be part of your experiences EVERY DAY. This can be a state of being, a choice to operate and vibrate in the place of love rather than fear. So if that is so, then this day isn’t any different from any other day. It is just another day that offers you the chance to choose again to come from the place of love. This day, therefore, doesn’t have to bring about feelings of loneliness unless we choose that to be the case. The other thing to remember is that we are never separated from those we love, we are always connected to them, even if we are not physically beside the ones we love. If you are single or if your loved one is not physically near you right now, you are still connected. Our energies are messed together forever with those that are vibrational matches to who we are. It is the mind that can perceive of separation, focusing on that perception which can then cause loneliness and tears. But again, remember, this is a choice. Love is within you and your happiness comes from within you. You are happy and then bring that happiness to anything you experience, whether it be a relationship or anything really. I wanted to offer you some tips of how you can share love with yourself if you are single or even if you are in a relationship… ~~ Read a book you find interesting in silence, either in a comfy space in your home or in nature. Sometimes when we go along a journey with a character, we receive inspiration we can take within our own lives. If we are reading a self help book, we can receive insight into our own lives and can incorporate those things within our own experience of life and love. ~~Spend some quiet time just resting, laying down, sitting, whatever is comfortable for you and do nothing. We can get into hectic schedules and routines of doing so much that we don’t often take the time to do nothing. Doing nothing can be so rewarding for it offers our spirits a chance to refresh, just breathing and being, totally as we are, releasing the mind and all we feel we have to do. ~~ Laugh. This sounds simple, but really, how easy it is...

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