A False Twin Flame is a Misperception of Your Connection
Q. I have been so richly blessed by your message of LOVE and helping all of us understand what LOVE really is. I have gained much from interacting with you. I am curious if you have even done any articles about false twin flames? I spoke with you a while back about some very interesting multidimensional interactions I was having with someone I thought might be my twin flame. I felt him everyday. I dreamed about him. I felt I was in dialogue with him (still do) during certain portions of the day, etc.
I ran into him once by “chance” and had a very interesting mental telepathic connection that happened within a span of seconds. I say “chance” b/c I ended up going to that particular place where I ran into him because I felt a pull as I was driving past that place and I literally turned the car around and decided to go visit the place I was about to drive past. Low and behold, there he was. The first time I had seen him in over a year. As we looked at each other, he said hello with his mouth yet I heard mentally, “I have a girlfriend”. Weeks after that, he told me those exact words via text message. I thought that I was imagining that I heard it, but I actually turned out to really hear it.
Anyhoo, I had a meeting with a twin flame gentleman who works with his female twin flame half here on Earth through energy work as their service to the community. I showed him a picture of me and the man I thought was possibly my twin flame and decided to get his insight. He is also a channeler and his Higher Self can receive messages from other entities in Higher frequencies. His message to me was that the man was not my twin and that I served as a heart catalyst for him to meet his Soul Mate and he helped to create a new template of male expression for me. He served to help me re-establish and perhaps re-create my masculine side. He also served to help me tap into my healing abilities so that I can begin to do work here on Earth the way my soul always knew it should.
It hurt to hear this message, but it also helped to free up a lot of energy and I felt a weight lifted a bit. I am not saying that I am totally sold one way or another, but I guess I am curious if you have come across stories like mine, where someone may not actually be a Twin Flame, but their presence, and multidimensional connections serve as a way for the other person to go deeper in their spiritual development.
I have been able to release my expectations that this man is my Twin. I am at the place in my development that I do know our Souls go WAY back. I know that if I do not see him again in this life time, I will run into him again in another, or in the Spiritual life/Astral Planes/Flying in the Universe. I have gained a deeper understanding that our souls are indeed immortal and time is very very short in the grand skeem of things. What seems like an eternity, is really only a second in the whole Universe.
I am still intrigued by this connection I shared with this man. I actually ended up sharing with him what my experiences have been on my end, the dreams I kept having, the empathic connections I felt, and the moments I felt the need to offer Healing energy on his behalf. He thanked me, told me he was in a relationship and asked me to stop communicating with him. He neither confirmed or denied anything on his end. It stung to have such an straight forward clear cut response. But I did ask him to at least do that instead of not responding. So I guess I asked for it, lol.
Since I communicated with him and finally and openly shared with him what my experiences have been relating to him, the dreams have stopped flooding in. I used to have dreams about him a couple times a week. Now, very very seldom. I still feel a telepathic connection with him during the waking hours, but that is about it. I have just been teaching myself to totally let go of all of my expectations. I can easily be empathically connected to people for the purpose of offering healing energy, but this was has by far been the deepest connection, or at least to most intense that has sky rocketed my spiritual development and aided in me becoming more balanced in myself.
One other thing: The male Twin Flame that I spoke to told me that my actual Twin Flame is in another dimension and that we agreed to be in separate dimensions so that we can offer assistance to our worlds in unique ways. I have since started meditating and learning how to put myself in a hypnotic state so that I can learn to connect to others in the Astral Planes and be available to receive what ever insight I might be able to receive when I put myself in that state. My visions and lucid dream abilities have been getting sharpened.
Any insight on what to do when a Twin is in another dimension? I am still baffled that my spiritual development still seems to grow deeper when this other guy (who I thought was Twin) enters my dreams, and energy space. Well, sorry I wrote a ton, but I haven’t written on this site in a while and I wanted to share what my process has been thus far. Thank you for all that you do.
A. Thank you for continuing to share your journey. We can have higher soul mates come into our life experience to help us to evolve, open our hearts to expansion increasing our capacity to give and receive unconditional love for self, others and all that is. Of course, encountering your twin flame pushes you into an enhanced state of continuous self awareness and spiritual growth, strongly encouraging you to look at the reflection of yourself with love. We absolutely can connect on telepathic levels with others who are not the twin flame and have a sense of deeper communication, however the feeling with your twin flame far surpasses any other familiar energy, allowing you to feel completely loved, at peace and home, and it is common to do this through dreams and constantly merging with the energy of your union.
There are many ways that twin flames can choose to co-create in any given lifetime. One can be in spirit, one in human form, choosing to co-create, establish your deeper connection beyond the direct, physical experience. Another is by both of you inhabiting human bodies and connecting beyond the 3d experience but also in the physical and there are many layers of this. Some people connect physically, separate physically, and then come back together (this can happen more than once), others meet physically and either one or both of them are in a soul mate relationship (as one of the reasons for this is to see that all love shared is love shared with all, to see the connection and unconditional love for and with the twin flame enhances and includes all love which enables you to see with spiritual sight and merge it with your human seeing), and yet others have been with their twin flame for a time and then the twin can pass into spirit while they still cultivate this connection.
When you say the term “false twin flame,” I honestly feel that what this really is, is just a misperception of what the twin flame is, perhaps even putting limitations and expectations on the connection (meaning a belief/focus that the twin flame needs and must be a romantic physical relationship), and questioning if what your intuition is giving you is accurate. So a false twin flame is a misperception of your connection. You do have one twin flame, and when you meet as well as allow yourself to connect deeply with the intensity within you in the experience, you will know the truth of your connection. You can actually know the truth of your connection with everyone that comes along your path, including what your soul has planned to create, heal and learn with that particular soul. But one reason why I don’t tell people who their twin flame is (unless strongly guided to by spirit) is because the twin flame connection/love is so very much beyond the direct, physical experience, and in order to continue to cultivate that connection, and also to handle any “challenges” that come along your path that may be part of you and your twin flame’s journey, YOU need to feel that deep unconditional eternal love with, of and for your twin. It is so intimately embedded within your psyche and flows throughout your cells, that if you tap in, you can know the memories that your cells hold for clarification and guidance for you.
If your twin flame is in Spirit, in another dimension ( but even if your twin IS in physical form but you are not in direct contact), then what I would suggest is to be open. Set the intention that you want to connect, that you are ready to receive whatever guidance and love you are meant to, so that you can see the light of your specific journey here on Earth, and in co-creation with your twin to help bring the truth of deeper love to the planet. You do have a unique mission on your own as well as connected with your twin in union (for you are one), in whatever form you have chosen to do this. The more you meditate, dream, the more you listen and follow the guidance that comes to you in each moment, the more clear your path and each step will become.
I also just want to bring to your awareness here, that you can absolutely be sharing in Spirit, you can and you have as all twin flames have for they are never separated, with your twin flame before fully merging physically and continuing your service to the world with one another. Also if you encounter your twin when he is in another relationship, that does not mean that you won’t be joined together physically in this lifetime when the time is right IF that is in your soul plan. One of the main points to remember here is to not place any limitations or expectations on how things will develop with your twin flame, whether it be this man you mention or not, and allow for the natural unfolding and clarification to come in each moment, as it will continue to shine the light of remembering upon you, as it will also continue to assist you in your spiritual growth, increasing your spiritual sight while being on the Earth. Feel deep within you what resonates regarding what anyone, even myself, tells you about your twin flame and your journey. The truth and knowing of it all is within YOU. It’s a glorious and beautiful ride full of wondrous opportunities, isn’t it?