The Way Home is Burning Inside of You

Q. The person who I believe is my soul mate, in real life doesn’t know me (I don’t think). I met them a long time ago (20-odd years) and have never forgotten about them.

But over the past two years, for whatever reason, I can’t stop thinking about them, my brain filled with a life beyond my reality where we are together, coming together….

But I’m scared. It feels dangerous to desire so much through a hyper-reality than my actual reality. So what do I do? Is this a twin flame/soul mate, or just a over-worked imagination/wish/desire? How do you know?

It’s driving me nuts! And how do I know if she knows me or not, or thinks of me if she does?

Let go or receiveA. Dangerous according to whose standards? And what is the danger? The possibility that EVERYTHING you have ever felt, that you have ever known from within about love can truly and completely become your actual reality? You know who your Beloved is, the one that matches you by feeling it in the deepest place within you, the reoccurring feelings and thoughts (as you express) that never go away, that keep coming back, for when you feel like that, it is destiny knocking at your door, like crumbs, asking you to pay attention, to notice. Feel into the spaces of where such thoughts and feelings are coming from… because the place I’m talking about is within, where you feel what you can’t deny. It may not make sense at first, but will bring you so profoundly within your own being, to question everything, literally EVERYTHING, you have thought, felt, believed about love and relationship. After the questioning, it will encourage you to let it all go, all of the rules you’ve learned about love, all of the roles you’ve experienced played within relationships, the proof you need before you express the love that you are, even the perception that you must get to know someone before you know you love them. At this time in history, in the genre of relationships, we are asked to shift from believing we get to know someone by spending time with them to remembering this from within and allowing it. We remember we know someone from within, not from without first.

light in the heartThink about it this way. If you were to walk a path and wanted to find your way home, you perhaps might leave yourself crumbs or clues along the way so you would remember which way pointed to home.  If you meet someone and you have feelings, visions that you can’t easily explain, that keep coming back years after the initial encounter, can you see that this could be your soul giving you the clues or the crumbs so to speak? Think of this. Imagine that your soul had intended with another soul before incarnation to meet and co-create together as you love each other here on the Earth plane. How would you go about remembering that you made this intention beforehand so that you could choose it and act upon it? If you were to ask every person that created something which was never “known” before, they would tell you they had an idea (that initially to themselves and others) seemed crazy and out of the “norm,” that they had a feeling (s) that wouldn’t go away, which begged them to listen, to pay attention and to follow. When these ideas, visions and/or feelings come to you, you are invited to trust yourself, trust what you are receiving so that the beautiful energy of this Universe and those souls you’ve agreed to create and play with can bring it all into manifestation, to transform your reality into alignment and union with your “hyper-reality.”

flame magnetizedHow do you know if she knows you or thinks of you? How do you feel? Do you think of her? When Beloveds encounter each other, both are affected, both begin the journey to awakening into self as they move beyond self simultaneously. They mirror each other so that when one is feeling something, the other begins to feel into it as well. When one is experiencing something, having an epiphany, moving deeper into love, the other will reflect this. Again, it goes back to trusting yourself, trust what you are feeling, thinking and experiencing, then bring it all into expression as you allow the flame that burns as bright as yours to notice your light, and like a moth, come running to it for the warmth and comfort of home. What do you do? You already know. It’s right there within you. When you know, become it, follow it and act upon it, without hesitation.


9 Comments on “The Way Home is Burning Inside of You

  1. WOW!!! I am going through same thing. knew the person who I feel is my twin flame when I was a kid around 11.had strong feelings for him as a child I didn’t understand. but I remember him vividly. I moved away and went through life. Then out of the blur he came in to my mind , and has never left. Hes with me every where. I feel what gos beyond normal. I can feel a physicial pull of energy guiding me to find him agin.I found he still lives one town over from where we both lived when we went to school. This is crazy cause he hasn’t seem or heard of me in years.He cant remember me. we were kids. Can you meet your twin flame that young? we are both 36 now. I left him in elem, school.I long to connect with him. .I seem to feel strong and ready to be unselfish and expect nothing from him .I am so drawn to meeting with him agin.I feel I know him. I feel I can already know his struggles. Is there any way to know for sure if you found your twin flame? Its so easy to feel like your thinking un realalistic, cause its so far out there from the normal realms of explanation.

  2. Lori, I understand what you say 100%: “Its so easy to feel like your thinking un realalistic, cause its so far out there from the normal realms of explanation”. I feel my TF too, I feel his struggles, and the most amazing is; I feel him too when I’m sick or have problems. Never mention none of this to my best friend, I don’t think she or anybody could understand it. Maybe she will advise me to go to the doctor. It is crazy, how can I love so much to somebody who only know his name.

  3. Hi Gabriella,

    I was going through the exact qts in my mind, and the Universe led me to your site, exactly to this page. Synchronicity right? 🙂
    I had tears in my eyes when I read your answer to the above question.
    It totally resonates with me. But what I wish to know is what is to be done practically for me & him to get closer. Could you please elaborate for me?
    Thank You 🙂

  4. Dear Prik,

    😉 synchronicity has its sweet way of bringing you exactly where you need to be, doesn’t it? Tis no doubt that you are here, and reading exactly what your heart needed at this time. Honestly, I reread my response and found myself in the midst of a myriad of tears flowing down my cheeks. This divine love moves us into the deepest core pieces of our essence! This love is constantly opening us, showing us, and flowing us into the clearest expression of our true nature, affected by and reflected in our Beloved. How can you go about practically taking steps to get closer? By remembering that you are already close. When you know that you already are in this closeness, you can encompass it in your becoming of it. Love your own self expression and his, profoundly, in an unconditional display. Each of the ways in which you share brings about an interweaving of your balancing energies always dancing with one another.

    The way home is truly burning inside of you as this love is sparked and ignited by your interaction with the Beloved, continuously deepening your reflection and offering you direction. Both this intensity of love from within as well as this love moving between you is your guiding force. Let this love literally move you as it soothes you, as you keep your eyes open to the synchronicities, (just like arriving at my post with such perfection 😉 ) keep your heart open to the emotions that are always in motion, and align them with your action. Remember that there is never a wrong choice… if you are connected to your heart, and it is the love vibrating within that you are bringing forth in intention, your creation will manifest a return of this love upon you. Let it be showered unto you as you bask in showering others with your powerful love! Of course, have fun, laugh, enjoy yourself along the way! The journey is absolutely more rewarding when you are basking in the bliss and beauty of you being your unique YOU 🙂

  5. The heart that loves does not forget. Its passion is like a burning flame that is kept alive by memory.

    I don’t know who wrote this, but I found it so true.
    Blessings to everybody.

  6. Dear Joana,

    Thank you for sharing this quote. It deeply resonates within my heart, and I thank you tremendously for sharing it here. It is true, that the heart does not forget. The heart is LOVE, as it is only the illusions our perceptions can bring through that block us from feeling such flow in our hearts of LOVE. My wish is that we may all bring this love out into the hearts of all that we touch, to bring deeper love into this world. Thank you Beloved, again, for sharing this. Love to you in abundance, as love is what you are.

  7. I too amongst many fears and odd feelings have fallen upon this page thank you for being here I think you will guide me.
    If you accept paypal I would gladly donate.

  8. You are so welcome Liz. I am also glad that the forces in which we are all connected has brought you this way, and I look forward to sharing your journey with you. I do accept paypal, and if you wish to donate, you may do so at this link: Donate An abundance of love from my heart to yours!