An Inner Wakefulness
Aug31

An Inner Wakefulness

An Inner Wakefulness ~Rumi This place is a dream. Only a sleeper considers it real. Then death comes like dawn, and you wake up laughing at what you thought was your grief. But there’s a difference with this dream. Everything cruel and unconscious done in the illusion of the present world, all that does not fade away at the death-waking. It stays, and it must be interpreted. And this groggy time we live, this is what it’s like: A man goes to sleep in the town where he has always lived and he dreams he’s living in another town. In the dream, he doesn’t remember the town he’s sleeping in his bed in. He believes the reality of the dream town. The world is that kind of sleep. The dust of many crumbled cities settles over us like a forgetful doze, but we are older than those cities. We began as a mineral. We emerged into plant life and into the animal state, and then into being human, and always we have forgotten our former states, except in early spring when we slightly recall being green again. That’s how a young person turns toward a teacher. That’s how a baby leans toward the breast, without knowing the secret of its desire, yet turning instinctively. Humankind is being led along an evolving course, through this migration of intelligences, and though we seem to be sleeping, there is an inner wakefulness that directs the dream, and that will eventually startle us back to the truth of who we...

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One Year Anniversary Celebration of BE YOU TO FULL Radio

Colin Martin and I celebrated our one year anniversary of having this radio show. We would love to hear from you, our listeners, to know which one was your favorite episode and how any of our shows may have helped you change your perspective or affect your life in a positive way. We have both been changed tremendously through this experience and for sharing our insights and steps along our journeys with you. What a treat…and we will continue to share more and more. In honor of the 1 year anniversary, we are giving away gifts to 4 lucky people. The gifts I am giving away are: A free autographed copy of my book, an hour angel reading and an hour coaching session. Colin will be giving away an hour long CD titled “Breaking the Barriers to Love.” All you need to do to enter the contest is to send me an email at coaching@emergingsoul.com to tell me what your favorite episode is and how it has helped you to change your perspective on life or how your life has changed as a result. Then sit back and relax, you might win one of these prizes. If you can’t choose just one episode, you can let me know how the shows have helped to shift your perspective on life and relationships as well as how things have changed as a result of the shows. Good luck and thanks for...

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What if I am Aware of Our Intentions Before my Twin Flame?

Q What do I do when I am aware of who my twin flame is before he is aware of it on a conscious level? What do I do if I remember what our souls have intended to experience and create together in detail and he does not fully know this? Do I hold space for him or do I continue along my life? Can I do both? Will he realize our mutual intentions and know that I am the one he is waiting for? A In answer to your question, it is both. If you are aware of what you and your twin flame have intended on a soul level to experience and create together here on Earth before he/she is consciously aware of those details, then you can hold space for him/her to get to the point of remembering and then consciously choosing to move forward but you can also continue along your path. This is the balance of holding the intentions and the love for your twin flame within your heart but allowing yourself to enjoy the moment right here that is in front of you as well as all those who are directly in your life experience right now. What can you do in the meantime, the in between time before physical reunion with your twin? Connect with the inner essence of you. As you remember these details and recall your agreement with your twin as to your mutual life purpose/mission, then you can individually take the steps towards creating that mission, your part in the mission knowing that as you do so, you allow your twin to further awaken to that purpose. Therefore, as you hold the positive intentions for reunion and your purpose together, it will be created stronger and stronger in the physical direct reality as you come nearer and nearer to entering into each other’s lives. It is important to have the balance of being in the moment because it is this moment right now that guides you to the next moment. There are people that may guide you to the next person or the next situation/experience that brings you more understanding of who you are and what you are creating, just as when you walk, you put one foot in front of the other to get to the next part on your path, your journey. This is the same process, the balance of being here right now, with all of your awareness of the connection, the love, the mutual purpose in giving to the world that you hold with your twin in your heart, and allowing each moment to bring...

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Balance of Holding Intentions and Being in the Moment Right Now

I had a powerful conversation with a dear friend of mine, Nenari Diamondlady, as we shared on the topic of the balance of holding intentions for what you desire to create while releasing them, knowing that what you desire is on the process of manifesting directly into your life experience. This letting go allows for you to choose joy and happiness right now in the moment. It is in letting go and being happy right now that you are able to deepen your faith and trust in the universe. If you were to hold onto your creations right now that are in the process of blooming, you can cause yourself to always be in the future. Let right now bring you to the next right...

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Transitioning Out of a Soul Mate Relationship

Q When you feel you are transitioning out of a soul relationship… What if you are married to your soul mate and he or she does not want to end the current relationship? Should you stay in the marriage? How should you approach this? A You may have heard this before but the best thing to do is to listen to your heart and what feels true and right for you. Sometimes, we can be quick to end a relationship when we are challenged rather than going through the roller coaster ride of emotions as we release the ego and really open to hearing the other person’s perspective as they share their feelings, needs, etc. It sounds like you are concerned about what his desires are for your relationship, meaning that you may stay in the relationship because of that, and I would say that if you are also feeling this way, then stay in the relationship and do the best you can to work it out. The best thing when there are challenges that come up in a relationship is to have open, healthy communication. What I mean by that is allowing the other person to express what he is feeling without interruption and without judgment, even and especially if you don’t agree. Then you can express your own feelings in a non attacking manner. I recommend to my clients to say, “I feel,” a lot because it places the responsibility on you and not accusing the other person of anything, but just openly expressing how you both feel. The other thing is to know that nothing the other person says is personal against you. We react and interact in relationship with others from our previous experiences, our beliefs, behavior patterns, etc, so how we choose to be in any situation is from what we know. Pay attention to what your heart is telling you, is this question coming from your inner voice confirming to you that you feel this transition occurring? Place yourself in the emotions you would feel if you were not in this relationship anymore, how do you feel? Imagine yourself resolving things and staying in this relationship, how do you feel? Is it your feelings that are telling you this or is it your soul mates or is others opinions? You are the one that is in this experience and not those who are around you, so it is best that you follow what you deeply know in your heart. Let it steer you…if you decide to transition out of this relationship, I would recommend still having open and healthy communication which will make...

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