Q. My twin and I connected from 50 ft away, it was the most beautiful yet almost traumatizing moment of my life. It was literally a connection, and it was actually caught on video. We have never met face to face, but 2 days after this happened, I started dreaming about him and the dreams started getting more “real” over the course of a year, to the point now, I feel him, and his moods when I’m awake. AM I REALLY SEEING HIM? Please, I need a concrete answer, because everyone is telling me it’s really real, and I am not crazy. Just be prepared for it, including my mother.
A. First of all, it’s important to know that what is “real” is relative and it is up to the person observing and feeling what happens for them to determine it as real. Also, what may be real for you, as you explain it to another, may not seem actually real to the person you are sharing with. That being said, when something happens, especially when we have a connection with our twin flame, in dreams, and also in sensing the thoughts and emotions of the twin, we need to connect with our own inner essence/guidance system as to what our feelings are telling us.
The truth of twin flames is that the connection/communication/love goes way beyond this lifetime as well as beyond our physical bodies and it cannot be defined in only the 3d, human, physical sense. It is comforting that your mother and others are telling you that what you are experiencing and feeling is real, but YOU need to feel that it is real. This is one reason why I don’t tell people who their twin flame is for it is a deep soul recognition. The twin who is recognizing the other twin needs to feel that deep connection beyond the mind, but down within the heart and soul, because it is that acknowledgement that calls forth the memory of what the soul has intended to create in this lifetime with the twin flame. Also, if you look outside yourself to justify if what you are feeling and experiencing is real, then you may be going up and down like a puppet, for everyone is going to have their own opinions, and only YOU are experiencing/feeling within these dreams, both sleeping and waking dreams. What you experience is ultimately for you, and to help guide you along your path of union with your twin flame. Remember that you are the one that knows the truth of what you are feeling, and the truth of your connection with your twin.