Q. I met my twin about six months ago. I knew he was my twin right off. Before saying hello on the phone we giggled a little because it was kinda weird. His comment when we met and spent some time together was I feel like we have known each other for years. We complement each other and have many life experiences in common…it truly is like meeting yourself…we call each other “wonder twins”. However a couple of months ago I got scared of losing him and violated his trust. This was so out of character for me. He refuses to return my calls or make contact. We both had a lot on our plates and I don’t think it would have been a good time to be together( I think I subconciously messed up on purpose) but I now know he IS the one and we are not really separated. I need to take this “break” to work on myself and explore my passion…and the person I am meant to be. Will we get back together…?
A. You would be the one to know whether you will come back together again. You just need to connect with the truth and inner knowing deeply embedded within you for your contract with your twin in this lifetime. Sometimes, you meet up with your twin in the physical, which of course creates an acceleration of spiritual awakening on many levels, and then physically separate to continue the growth and “work on yourself” as you mention. Very good that you acknowledge that this time away from direct contact with your twin allows for you to focus and concentrate on you, exploring your passion, being present in the moment and allowing yourself the many opportunities of choosing happiness right now. I teach so much about the importance of connecting with the passion inside of you as you bring that passion into your life and how this connection to your passion as well as your happiness is sent to your twin, for you truly are never separated.
Twin flames do take on a mission together, so the best thing that you can do while apart (and always a part of each other) is to focus on what you are passionate about, and how to bring it more fully into your life in service to the world and others, for it is that passion that will join with your twins to help you to both, together give to each other and the world. Know that you are always becoming more deeply the person that you are, and that is the person you are meant to be…who you are, as you constantly discover more of who you are as you move along your journey.