Not All Twin Flames Are Romantic but There is Deep Unconditional Love Between Them
Nov30

Not All Twin Flames Are Romantic but There is Deep Unconditional Love Between Them

Q. Hi are all twin flames romantic? Because I met mine 4 years ago, she ignored me for a year, we remet, and I ignored her, I met her again to try to heal and her boyfriend I didnt know about confronted us. She smiled at me the next day but I looked the other way, I was so fed up that day that I told myself I will never see/talk to this girl again. Well two years later she absolutely haunts me. I have smoked excessive pot since then and I feel very arrogant, even though I know she sincerely wants me to befriend her and her boyfriend, If she just could have been honest from the start I feel we could have worked things out but there is so much negative karma. We are on good terms but am I wrong to hide from this monster?I have this gut level hate for her boyfriend that I cant explain as well, I dont even really find her sexually attractive. I feel we should be friends but my stomach is still full of resentment after all these years. Thanks for your time this is a crazy thing to deal with. A. To answer your question, no, not all twin flames have planned to have a “romantic” relationship or a lasting romantic relationship in this way in this lifetime. At this time though, heading into 2012, many twin flames have chosen, on a soul level, before physical incarnation, to come together to raise the vibration of love on planet Earth. One way that many twins have chosen to do this is by sharing their love with each other as well as the world, in service. In order for this to happen, there needs to be self love, unconditional, deep love for self as well as the twin and for all that is. If you want to read more about this, you can read this post: Twin Flame Union is About the Eternal Deep Unconditional Love and the Mission From what you have written, I get a sense that there is still healing that needs to occur, as you mention “negative karma.” Both twins have had many lifetimes where they were physically separated from each other and developed their own individual karma to work through, each step bringing them a deeper sense of love and acceptance for self, the twin and all that is. When you are in this state, this higher frequency of love, such feelings as hate and jealousy cannot exist. At this state, you are consciously aware of what comes up, and it does sound like you are...

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Coming Back Together with My Twin Flame
Nov28

Coming Back Together with My Twin Flame

Q. I met my twin about six months ago. I knew he was my twin right off. Before saying hello on the phone we giggled a little because it was kinda weird. His comment when we met and spent some time together was I feel like we have known each other for years. We complement each other and have many life experiences in common…it truly is like meeting yourself…we call each other “wonder twins”. However a couple of months ago I got scared of losing him and violated his trust. This was so out of character for me. He refuses to return my calls or make contact. We both had a lot on our plates and I don’t think it would have been a good time to be together( I think I subconciously messed up on purpose) but I now know he IS the one and we are not really separated. I need to take this “break” to work on myself and explore my passion…and the person I am meant to be. Will we get back together…? A. You would be the one to know whether you will come back together again. You just need to connect with the truth and inner knowing deeply embedded within you for your contract with your twin in this lifetime. Sometimes, you meet up with your twin in the physical, which of course creates an acceleration of spiritual awakening on many levels, and then physically separate to continue the growth and “work on yourself” as you mention. Very good that you acknowledge that this time away from direct contact with your twin allows for you to focus and concentrate on you, exploring your passion, being present in the moment and allowing yourself the many opportunities of choosing happiness right now. I teach so much about the importance of connecting with the passion inside of you as you bring that passion into your life and how this connection to your passion as well as your happiness is sent to your twin, for you truly are never separated. Twin flames do take on a mission together, so the best thing that you can do while apart (and always a part of each other) is to focus on what you are passionate about, and how to bring it more fully into your life in service to the world and others, for it is that passion that will join with your twins to help you to both, together give to each other and the world. Know that you are always becoming more deeply the person that you are, and that is the person you are meant to...

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Twin Flame Union is About the Eternal Deep Unconditional Love and the Mission
Nov26

Twin Flame Union is About the Eternal Deep Unconditional Love and the Mission

Many of you who are on the twin flame journey and have been on it for a while have probably found yourself searching on the internet, reading books, talking with others about this whole experience, to understand it, since it is so complex, full of emotions and connection which goes beyond the body and this lifetime. I myself have done the same thing. Much of what you read or hear from me has come from my connection to all that is, Spirit, Divine Energy, whatever you would like to call it as my specific message to bring forth at this particular time regarding twin flame union, re-union, love. What I wanted to bring forth is the seemingly dualistic messages that the twin flame relationship is about romance and love OR it is about the mission that twin flames take on together to serve the world in some way. Very rarely have I found information that links both of these together…and this is the place that Spirit has guided me to reside in. Through this, I would like to explain just what I mean by that. First, there are three parts to the twin flame relationship (on two levels). The first three part aspect of the twin flame union is this 1. Love for the self 2. Love for each other 3. Love for the world and the other three part aspect is 1. Healing of Self (both twins) 2. Healing with each other 3. Healing with the world. So what does that mean? Many of you may have heard me talk about the number 11 and how it relates to twin flames and relationships. 1 and 1 exist on their own as whole beings yet when they come together, they create an extension of their completeness and create 11. Hence this is the three parts to the relationship: 1. one twin flame, 2. the other twin flame 3. and the twin flames together. Both of these three parts to the whole relationship need to be cultivated, healed and loved. There needs to be a healthy relationship to self in order to have a healthy loving relationship with your twin flame and in order to come together to vibrate on the deep frequency of unconditional love to share that love with the world in service together. Part of this three part aspect of the twin flame union/relationship is about being committed to healing, for in order to have a healthy relationship with your self, you do need to be aware what is coming up in each moment recognizing that it is YOUR stuff, and allowing yourself to feel and shift...

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Surrender to Love: Let the Flow of the Universe Guide and CoCreate With You
Nov26

Surrender to Love: Let the Flow of the Universe Guide and CoCreate With You

Surrender, why is this is so important on the journey of life and love? What do I mean by surrender? Surrender is when you let go of everything and everyone that you may have been attached to as well as letting go of the false need to control from the mind…you move into the heart of knowing that there is no separation from everything and everyone, that there is no need to try to control anything for this only creates limitations. When you move into the heart and recognize this interconnectedness with all, you understand that you are part of the universe, and what your highest self desires for you CAN and ALREADY is created, therefore, you only need to become part of the flow of ALLOWING everything to happen and unfold as it will. Allowing everything to unfold as it will is being present in this now moment while you are not resisting what is happening in this moment, but noticing the signs and guidance around you to bring you to the next step along your journey, as you continue to walk into what your higher self has already chosen and created before incarnation. You walk hand in hand with the universe, all that is, to step into your dreams, on all levels. When you surrender in this way, you release your expectations, attachments, limitations and you move into the space of knowing that everything happens in its divine order, as there is perfection in every moment, every experience, every relationship in your now moment, and all of the people, situations, things around you are there, planned ahead of this “time,” to prepare you and ready you for the next step you are to take. Knowing this, how can you not feel that the universe wants to assist you, and when you surrender and open up to your next step on your journey, the universe will be right there to bring you the signs, the contacts, anything that you need to guide you lovingly and easily into your next step. Think of the word flow…think of the river or the ocean…these bodies of water flow, and if the weather creates a path towards the left, it flows that way…if there is a rock in the way, it moves over it and adjusts accordingly, but doesn’t remove itself from the flow. This is the divine and perfect flow of the universe, and as you acknowledge that you are part of this universe, then it becomes easier to trust that the universe desires to create with you therefore you allow yourself to be right here and now in this present...

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Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion
Nov23

Soul Mate Love Enhances Twin Flame Love and Prepares Us for ReUnion

Q. So I’ve met my twin flame but I’m currently in a relationship. One which is very loving. I’m so pulled to be around my twin and we communicate regularly on the Internet sharing our experiences and life story. The reason we figured out we were twins is because of the many synchronicities we started to notice. One big one was our love for the number 11:11. he actually has a tattoo of it and I was planning on getting one. I added him as a friend on an 11:11 Facebook page to make friends of like minds. He messaged me a long message about his beliefs on what’s occurring on the planet and I felt super comfortable with his words automatically and a feeling of excitement came over me. As the synchronicitys continued and our spiritual paths and understanding were almost exact we both were wondering what was going on. This is around the time I was ready to get out of what I call my dark days of my ascension. I almost feel bad for having this intense love for someone else besides my boyfriends and the longing to b with my twin. And do some real work together. He understands my position and is supportive and comforting. I have grown alot since our connection. I’m learning unconditional love for all. But my limited humanistic mind feels like cheating. I know this is a learning experience and my soul mate relationship I have is for my growth but I’m just confused and want to make sure I’m not losing my mind. A. I think that these two posts are going to help you tremendously with what you are currently experiencing with your soul mate and twin flame: Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness and Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness Continued You are right on with what you feel, that through loving soul mate relationships we heal from love that has expectations, limitations, conditions and move into the space of truly understanding what unconditional love is, and that is does not exclude anyone, nor does it create separation. When we look through the eyes of Spirit (our heart) instead of Ego (our mind), we see very clearly that we are not separated from each other, and that all the love we have shared in and are sharing in is also being shared with our twin flame and everyone else…all of that love just joins together into this huge energy of deep love, which is ever deepening and growing, truly limitless. Spirit understands that there is a natural flow and divine order to life and love,...

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